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  1. T

    Moving in?

    hello, I have been with my serious boyfriend for a while now. I found out his sister is coming to the same university and she asked me to move in with her. I would be sleeping with her in one room and he would have his own next door. I was wondering if anyone has any guidance or spiritual...
  2. SummerMadness

    In college scandal, rowing was the ideal sport for stowaways, cheating

    In college scandal, rowing was the ideal sport for stowaways, cheating
  3. Mary Meg

    Gap year?

    Hi, I am trying to decide on a college and somebody suggested taking a gap year. I really hadn't thought about it before... but I am having a hard time deciding what to do. Has anybody here done a gap year? What did you do? What would you suggest? How did you decide?
  4. Mary Meg

    Choosing a good college, help!

    Hi. I'm a Christian girl just about to graduate high school and I need to decide on a college to attend by May 1. I applied to and was accepted to a BUNCH of schools, and now I have no idea what to do... All of these offered me good scholarships. I'm completely overwhelmed by this life-changing...
  5. pantingdeer

    Can't study for my exams as I have brain fog

    In 3 weeks I have some important university exams and I aim to do well in them. When I'm not stressed I'm able to read my notes, process them and then understand them. Now I'm stressed and I can't picture anything I'm reading in my head which means I have to read it about 10 times and it still...
  6. SummerMadness

    The College Admissions Scandal Is About More Than Just Bribery

    The College Admissions Scandal Is About More Than Just Bribery
  7. M

    Help me out?

    Hi! My name is Adrienne and I'm a student at the University of Tennessee, Knoxville (go vols!!). I'm doing a religious psych study that's looking at how being religious influences our likelihood to volunteer and be involved in our communities. I would really appreciate it if anyone would fill...
  8. Handyman Sam (on Youtube)

    When Is the Right Time to Move Out?

    Hi everyone. I’m sure everyone has asked this question at least once in their lifetime. I’ve seen and read a lot of forums about this topic, but haven’t really found one that fits my situation closely. So, I figured I’d make my own post. Here goes: I’m a 22 year old guy still currently living...
  9. SummerMadness

    Zion Williamson’s Injury Has Some Saying He Should Quit Duke

    Zion Williamson’s Injury Has Some Saying He Should Quit Duke
  10. MournfulWatcher

    Should I Sing in a Concert for the LGBT Movement?

    I attend a public university and have a choir scholarship there, although I am not a music major. The music director is a Christian and also directs the choir program at a local Methodist church in my town. Today, the director called a meeting for the different university choir classes for some...
  11. P

    relationship advice

    Hi everyone, sorry for the long post I am a 22 year-old girl who recently graduated from college. One of my best friends is a guy I have known since I was eleven years old. We have been there for one another through every part of our lives from graduations and middle school dances and family...
  12. SummerMadness

    Oklahoma sorority sister booted after posting blackface video

    Oklahoma sorority sister booted after posting blackface video
  13. HarvestTheFields

    What Is Upcoming Semester Like?

    What will your upcoming winter/spring semester be like? I'll have a heavier course load than in the fall. But the classes seem like they'll be interesting, so hopefully it won't be too bad. I have Criminal Law, Property Law, Constitutional Law, Legal Professionalism, and Legal Research and...
  14. SummerMadness

    UMass Amherst student is asked to remove vulgar sign, prompting free speech questions

    UMass Amherst student is asked to remove vulgar sign, prompting free speech questions
  15. Lexie Grey

    Moving Back Home & Depression

    I started college like most of my high school peers did. I moved right out of the house, into the dorms, and into a very competitive premed major. I broke up with my high school boyfriend, I found a new college one, and lived how I thought most college students did. However, in this process, I...
  16. Lexie Grey

    Emotionally Abusive Relationship

    I'm 19 years old, in my second year of college, and have found myself in the middle of a scary relationship. I am by no means throwing around the word abusive if I didn't genuinely believe that's the situation I'm in. I've been dating this person since last year. He found me in a really bad...
  17. SummerMadness

    Man takes out gun to stop students from entering apartment building

    White man takes out gun to stop black students from entering apartment building In another episode of living while black, a self-deputized elevator monitor who is not a resident of the building pulled a gun to prevent students from entering housing for students. It is clear the gun was meant...
  18. Pokeli

    Theology Graduate Programs

    Hello, I'm currently an theology undergraduate and because I'm interested in research and teaching at the collegiate level, I'm looking at graduate programs after I earn my bachelor's. I live in Indiana and I'd prefer not going too far from the state (my family is here). I've been looking at...
  19. Ana the Ist

    You Can't Be Racist to Whites-TSU

    So, a girl who apparently enrolled at Texas State University tweeted a fairly innocuous statement that garnered a rather harsh reaction from much of Texas State University's student body.... Texas State University students: You can’t be racist to white people All she wrote was... "Any race...
  20. SummerMadness

    Triple Jeopardy in College Sexual Assault Case Ends an N.F.L. Career

    Triple Jeopardy in College Sexual Assault Case Ends an N.F.L. Career I believe the problem still lies with in the fact that universities handle these cases, thus creating separate justice systems that can either result in too much leniency or draconian results such as this case.