I started college like most of my high school peers did. I moved right out of the house, into the dorms, and into a very competitive premed major. I broke up with my high school boyfriend, I found a new college one, and lived how I thought most college students did. However, in this process, I became very depressed. I lost 20 pounds, I broke out in horrible stress acne, I slept an average of four hours every night. I relied entirely on my boyfriend, and had to get on a heavy dose of antidepressants. I began to fail my tests, I had to switch roommates due to excessive bullying, I hated my life. I told myself that next year, I'd live on campus and stay in my major for one more semester, and if I still wasn't happy, I'd reevaluate my life.
I am now a second year, at the end of the fall semester, even more depressed than I started. I'm on a different anti depressant as well as anxiety medication, and I'm continuing the relationship with the boy I met last year, after having broken up with him over the summer. I returned to school and was so sad, and so lonely, I felt little to no choice but to just go back to him. I'm failing my classes, and go home at any chance I get. I miss being happy, I don't remember what it's like to be happy.
Over thanksgiving break I had multiple serious talks with my parents about moving back home. I have always been a family oriented person, and believe that moving back home and commuting to school, as well as changing to a nursing major, might be the changes I need to feel happy again and recover. However, I feel like I need more input and advice about whether this is the right choice for me. Will this stunt me in becoming an adult? I know my roommate and boyfriend will tell me that living on my own and at school is imperative to growing up, as I've had this discussion with them multiple times. But I'm so sad, and so lonely, and feel so much anxiety every time I have to go back to the dorms after being home. I miss my sister and my mother, and living in a quiet space without the expectation of the social life of the dorms. I'm afraid of disappointing my roommate and my boyfriend, but I have to live for myself, and the way I'm continuing to live isn't sustainable.
What should I do? Any prayer or advice is always appreciated, thank you so much.
I am now a second year, at the end of the fall semester, even more depressed than I started. I'm on a different anti depressant as well as anxiety medication, and I'm continuing the relationship with the boy I met last year, after having broken up with him over the summer. I returned to school and was so sad, and so lonely, I felt little to no choice but to just go back to him. I'm failing my classes, and go home at any chance I get. I miss being happy, I don't remember what it's like to be happy.
Over thanksgiving break I had multiple serious talks with my parents about moving back home. I have always been a family oriented person, and believe that moving back home and commuting to school, as well as changing to a nursing major, might be the changes I need to feel happy again and recover. However, I feel like I need more input and advice about whether this is the right choice for me. Will this stunt me in becoming an adult? I know my roommate and boyfriend will tell me that living on my own and at school is imperative to growing up, as I've had this discussion with them multiple times. But I'm so sad, and so lonely, and feel so much anxiety every time I have to go back to the dorms after being home. I miss my sister and my mother, and living in a quiet space without the expectation of the social life of the dorms. I'm afraid of disappointing my roommate and my boyfriend, but I have to live for myself, and the way I'm continuing to live isn't sustainable.
What should I do? Any prayer or advice is always appreciated, thank you so much.