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adultery

  1. A

    Right Thing To Do? (Married Couple Issue)

    We are both 56 yo. Married 32 yrs now. She was my first love. First 28 yrs of our marriage was a lovely and story book romance ... until I was comatosed for 2 yrs. Medical negligence issue. 1. When I first woke up from my comatosed state, I saw a worried look in my wife's face. She was planning...
  2. makeajoyfulnoise100

    Prayer Request To remarry or not to remarry? That is the momentous question

    Matthew 5:32 states very clearly that if I remarry I am an adulteress. So then does that either mean adultery can be forgiven by staying single for the rest of my life? Or can I marry another divorcee (or someone who was promiscuous but repented of those ways) and be a helper to a man's walk...
  3. Conker

    Is this lust, and how do I overcome adultery?

    So I've recently been going to the beach quite often because I love to go fishing, but each time I go there are always females almost completely naked. Each time my eyes linger to their bust or other assets. I don't think about anything sexual, but it just feels wrong that I am in a sense...
  4. Christsfreeservant

    Our Spiritual Journey

    Thursday, June 15, 2017, 5:16 a.m. – The Lord Jesus put in mind the song “Amazing Grace.” Speak, Lord, your words to my heart. I read Luke 15:11-32 (NASB) Two Sons (vv. 11-16) And He said, “A man had two sons. The younger of them said to his father, ‘Father, give me the share of the estate...
  5. Christsfreeservant

    Offspring of Deceit

    Saturday, May 27, 2017, 5:27 a.m. – The Lord Jesus put in mind the song, “My Jesus, I Love Thee.” Speak, Lord, your words to my heart. I read Isaiah 57:1-13 (ESV). The Righteous Perish (vv. 1-2) The righteous man perishes, and no one lays it to heart; devout men are taken away, while...
  6. Christsfreeservant

    Selfless

    Saturday, May 13, 2017, 8:08 p.m. – The Lord Jesus put in mind the song “Oh, To Be Like Thee.” I read Hebrews 13:1-6 (ESV). Think of Others (vv. 1-3) Let brotherly love continue. Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares. Remember those...
  7. J

    Emotional Affairs

    My husband has had emotional affairs during our marriage and has physically cheated once during the dating time while in a serious committed relationship (which was disclosed to the me 9 years into our marriage). While he says he's never crossed the line physically during the marriage, there...
  8. Christsfreeservant

    Alas, Sinful Nation

    Tuesday, March 14, 2017, 7:47 a.m. – The Lord Jesus put in mind the song “Give Ear to Jesus.” Speak, Lord, your words to my heart. I read Isaiah 1:1-20 (Select vv. NASB). They Have Revolted (vv. 2-4) Listen, O heavens, and hear, O earth; For the Lord speaks, “Sons I have reared and brought...
  9. Christsfreeservant

    Acts of Immorality

    Saturday, March 4, 2017, 10:13 p.m. – The Lord Jesus put in mind the song “Should I Not Preach Jesus.” Speak, Lord, your words to my heart. I read Revelation 2:12-17 (NASB). “And to the angel of the church in Pergamum write: The One who has the sharp two-edged sword says this: ‘I know where...
  10. Lybrah

    Is it okay to date another Christian whose been divorced?

    I know the bible says that if a man divorces his wife and marries another, then he and that new woman are adulterers. But in this day and age, it is extremely hard not to meet someone who is divorced. Especially when you are older. Are there any exceptions? I don't want to commit adultery!
  11. Christsfreeservant

    Stop Sleeping!

    Tuesday, December 20, 2016, 3:30 a.m. – The Lord Jesus put in mind the song “Have Thine Own Way, Lord.” Speak, Lord, your words to my heart. I read Romans 13 (ESV). Subject to Authority (vv. 1-7) Let every person be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from...
  12. BastionHD

    Recollecting memories from the past, is it a sin?

    So I've been raised a Christian and fallen off the path a one point in my life. Now, I genuinely live my life for the Lord and the advancement of the kingdom of heaven. But I have this nagging question that keeps coming back. Sometimes as I recollect over my past, I end up thinking of sexual...
  13. Christsfreeservant

    Amen! Hallelujah!

    Monday, September 19, 2016, 7:45 a.m. – The Lord Jesus put in mind the song “For Our Nation.” Speak, Lord, your words to my heart. I read Revelation 19:1-9 (ESV). Hallelujah! (vv. 1-3) After this I heard what seemed to be the loud voice of a great multitude in heaven, crying out, “Hallelujah...
  14. MoCast83

    How to stop loving my ex-husband

    I am new to this... I feel like my family and friends don't understand or they expect me to be "all better" now. So, I'm here. I met my ex 1 month after my 18th birthday in Mexico serving the Lord. We dated for 3 years and were married for 10. We have 2 amazing children and have been divorced...
  15. H

    Exploring Adultery

    In Matthew 5:32, why does Jesus make the statement: Whoever divorces his wife makes her practice adultery, and whoever a divorced woman marries is practicing adultery.
  16. Christsfreeservant

    "To My Account"

    Tuesday, July 26, 2016, 3:03 a.m. – The Lord Jesus put in mind the song “Broken Hearts.” Speak, Lord, your words to my heart. I read Philemon 1:1-20 (ESV). Paul, a prisoner for Christ Jesus, and Timothy our brother, To Philemon our beloved fellow worker and Apphia our sister and Archippus our...
  17. Christsfreeservant

    How We Walk

    Monday, June 20, 2016, 8:36 a.m. – The Lord Jesus put in mind the song “Have Thine Own Way, Lord.” Speak, Lord, your words to my heart. I read Ephesians 5:1-21 (ESV). Imitators of God (vv. 1-2) Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children. And walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave...
  18. J

    My marriage and wife are in a tailspin. HELP!

    The problem is that I can’t reason with my wife and she’s a very bitter and tormented person. Our marriage counselor told me that he believes that she has never matured past her teenage years. When something is brought up that she doesn’t like she immediately shuts down or becomes defensive. She...
  19. Jonathanxr

    Young man with an addiction to sex and sexual thoughts?

    It's an absolute pleasure to be able to speak with you! I am a 21 year old young man. I feel like it is incredibly hard dealing with certain temptations and I don't really have anyone in my current life that is a guiding light. That's my reason for even being here now. I am sort of dating this...
  20. Jonathanxr

    Young man with an addiction to sex and sexual thoughts?

    It's an absolute pleasure to be able to speak with you! I am a 21 year old young man. I feel like it is incredibly hard dealing with certain temptations and I don't really have anyone in my current life that is a guiding light. That's my reason for even being here now. I am sort of dating this...