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    Loneliness

    I know many people are struggling with loneliness this year, but how do I deal with this as a married woman? My husband has always been hard to talk to on deeper levels. Since I got married, friends are few and far between. It's been especially hard since we are separated but still living...
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    Depression

    I've battled depression in the past. It's been pretty bad lately. Today was my birthday, and with everyone going on this year, just wasn't the same. I'm also in limbo with my husband. He wants to work things out, I want out of the abusive marriage. But right now is a difficult time to act on...
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    Prayer for Possible Reconciliation

    I filed for divorce from my husband earlier this year due to possible infidelity and emotional, verbal, and mental abuse. He is doing better, but I'm scared that past behaviors that have never gone away will come back. I can tell he is holding back since I got the law involved in my marriage. I...
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    Is This Normal?

    Is it normal to feel so anxious around your significant other to feel sick to your stomach and in knots? I'm thinking of reconciling with my husband, but I've started feeling so anxious with worry that its making me sick. I felt this way off and on since we've been married. Since I emotionally...
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    Living as Roommates

    For most of this year, my husband and I have been living as roommates. I filed for divorce, but that was put on hold due to the virus. Now that I finally told my husband I want a divorce and filed, he is finally the man I had always hoped he would be. But I have no desire to be any more than...
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    Update

    I hope everyone is staying well and healthy with everything going on in the world today. I filed for divorce from my husband in January. I tried building trust with him a little after, but my gut told me something was off so I kept my distance, even though most of the abuse stopped after I told...
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    Not Feeling too Fabulous...

    My 40th year was going pretty well until husband messed it up...oh well...just came in to say hello...even though it seems quiet in here...
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    Should I Leave or Try to Change?

    I'm not sure if I'm even asking the right question. I found out my husband had been emailing others about 2 years ago to meet up for sexual rendezvous. He said these meetings never happened and I eventually forgave him and moved on. The past 2 years got better. The emails and bullying stopped...
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    Am I Doing the Right Thing?

    It's been a long time since I posted on here. Things have been going pretty well between hubby and I...or so I thought...my gut told me to check his phone tonight...found that he had been corresponding with someone for the past month to meet up with them. These meetings seemed like they never...
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    Strong Emotions

    Me and my husband need prayers. We had a falling out yesterday over money. We talked it out and even though he probably forgot about it by now, I hate him for the hurtful things he said to me. I know I shouldn't feel this way about my own husband, but he has put me through so much since the...
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    Communication

    I know this is a common issue in marriage, but I'll ask anyway. How do you communicate to a spouse who doesn't always hear you? And how do you talk about the hard stuff without bringing in everything else that is bothering, has bothered, continues to bother you? I have a really hard time with...
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    How to Forgive an Abusive Spouse

    Since the beginning, 2.5 years ago, my husband has been verbally, emotionally and mentally abusive toward me. There was a turning point early last year where he really tried not to be and get more serious about helping me with the bills, which is awesome, but when the abuse happens again I can...
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    What is sexual immorality?

    I know this is a silly question, but I'm thinking of further separating myself from my husband. In this age of the internet, it seems like lines get blurred when it comes to sexual immorality and adultery. This question is based on my previous thread. I would like answers to this question backed...
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    I Hope I'm Doing the Right Thing

    About a month ago I found emails from my husband corresponding with people on Craigslist. There were times to meet, but he said the meetings never happened. One even implied that the meeting would have happened but didn't because I showed up early from work. The emails occurred when I was...
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    Husband Recently Lost Job

    We've only been married a few months and this happened. I figured a job loss wouldn't happen for years but, nope! To make matters worse, it was partially his fault since he got in a verbal argument with someone at work. When he told me what happened I was furious and freaked out, because of how...
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    Relationship Anxiety

    Does anybody else go through this? I've been like this off and on since we started dating several months ago. Sometimes I feel a peace I haven't felt in a long time when I'm around him, but the anxiety has gotten so bad I've almost broken up with him over it :(. I'm not sure if that's the right...
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    The Positive Thread

    There is too much negativity on here lately :preach:, so I thought we should have a positive thread :thumbsup:! I'll start...
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    The Big 3....

    I realized I recently made it to 3000 posts :tutu:! And that is after being here for almost 3 years :cool:. So, who's gonna throw me a party ;)? You are all invited :clap:...
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    To those in education or going into education....

    ... I also heard about what happened in Connecticut. My prayers goes for those children and the others that were killed and involved in this tragedy. What a week :(!
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    I am better off dead....

    I'm losing money faster than the few paychecks I get. I've almost run out of all my savings. I recently started paying back student loans, but I think I'm going to get those stopped for now. I was recently dropped from health insurance. I recently got my master's but have been partially...