- Apr 24, 2010
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I hope everyone is staying well and healthy with everything going on in the world today. I filed for divorce from my husband in January. I tried building trust with him a little after, but my gut told me something was off so I kept my distance, even though most of the abuse stopped after I told him I filed. I told him I would wait to serve him as well, since he was so remorseful. Well, I waited almost two months to see if I would have a change of heart, and didn't get him served until about two weeks before the coronavirus shut everything down here. A cop came by our place a week before, but hubby wasn't here. Now everything is on hold. We get along great as roommates and he gives me space, which is great. Sometimes I miss being close to him, then I remember how he was and want none of the abuse back in my life. I no longer get as anxious or have a sick feeling in my stomach anymore, which tells me I'm making the right choice. We don't talk about it, but as soon as this is all over I'm continuing with the divorce. Not sure if I'm looking for advice, just a little stir crazy and miss talking to my coworkers....