- Apr 24, 2010
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About a month ago I found emails from my husband corresponding with people on Craigslist. There were times to meet, but he said the meetings never happened. One even implied that the meeting would have happened but didn't because I showed up early from work. The emails occurred when I was working hard for the two of us since he had recently walked out of a job (again). He is pretty sorry I found all this out and has since given me access to his phone and emails. I have also physically and emotionally separated myself from him since. I have lost all trust in him, especially because of the emails as well as the many other things he has put me through. My first instinct is to kick him out, but I don't believe in divorce unless physical cheating has happened ( as far as I know it hasn't"). I've been following my gut, which is telling me to stay away from him. I'm miserable but feel safer since I've separated myself from him in this way. Many other things have happened since we were married. We've only been married for a little less than two years and its gone from bad to worse. We went into counceling last year and had to stop when his hours at work got cut in half. One of his bosses threatened to fire him, so it could have been worse. He has been in and out of work since we've been married. A few months ago I left him due to verbal abuse. Apparently the reason he has been talking to other people online is because I will not have a child with him. One of the reasons we got married was in case we had a kid. We only dated for 6 months. Soon after we married, his true colors came out and I have since seen many behaviors I find extremely disturbing. Because of these behaviors I do not want a child with him. I don't wan to put a kid through what I have been through. We are also horrible at communicating with each other so hopefully this second round of councelling will help with that. Need lots of prayers. Thank you.
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