I want to ask about this. This is one of the most difficult points of calvinism for me, because if I accept it, will I not just act in a worse way than I would have if I had not heard it? What does the Bible say about this and what does it mean? Jesus said "if you being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly father give good gifts to those who ask him." Matthew 7:11 I wonder if we use the term "evil" differently today, is it not nowadays a term reserved for serial killers and such? Most of us do not like to think of ourselves as evil. Are there degrees of evilness? So what did Jesus mean when he said "if you being evil..." ?
Evil is anything that is sin... sin is rebellion against God.
All men on earth have sinned. Period. All men sinners. It doesn't matter if your a good "religionist" and mostly follow the rules the point is the same. Your not better in your sin than the serial killer is in his, because all sin is rebellion against God - it can take many forms but is born out of three main sins:
The lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes and the pride of life...
Eve failed all three counts, and Jesus overcame on all three counts during the temptation in the wilderness.
The reason your not better but have an appearance of being better is your judging sin by the world's standards and not Gods. When you see sin as rebellion against God, the lie is seen the same as the murder, because both are equally rebellious against God's way.
Did you ever rob change from your father to buy a treat without asking permission? That's a thief - whether your stealing diamonds or candy money, it's stealing.
Did you ever wish your wife was more like the neighbors wife? That's coveting... and adulterous.
You can go on down a list for sins, but they are all equal in their rebellion against God's plan, against God himself, and so is a sin against God.
People are usually great about appearing righteous, but under the surface they aren't any less a sinner than anyone else, and that is what Adam and Eve brought into the world through their fall, they imparted in their offspring sin and death.
It is because of this, that ALL men, free or slave, Jew or Gentile, are under equal condemnation due to sin. "There is no one righteous, no, not one." According to scripture.
According to the world, telling a white lie is no big deal. According to God, it is rebellion and thus, sin.
When you see yourself through God's eyes, and how He sees sin, you will be on your knees begging for mercy...
The meaning of total depravity is that man is so depraved in his nature we need a Savior, because on our own we cannot turn to God, or turn from sin .. we are not essentially good, that make some mistakes. We are, to the core of our being, enemies of God, and the Bible calls us so.
Dead men don't grab ropes.