Ok really really stupid question..........But ive been trying to live right and than i relized I really dont know what is sinning and what isnt. I know that sinning is doing something that God wouldnt approve of. But how do I know if its sinning or not? Rules? There must be some guide lines or something.......I know theres the ten commandments, but is there something else that i could learn about and learn to follow? Im extremly confused
Oh no, that's not a stupid question at all. It's most excellent.
The answer is found in the dynamics of and between the Law and the Gospel.
Sinning is missing the mark. It is like shooting an arrow at a target. Sin is anything other than a bullseye. Sin is to break the law.
And what is the bullseye. Well it's what you do when you are controlled by the Holy Spirit, when you are filled with the true love of and from God. This is what is meant by having the law written on your heart. It is not a law the way we see law but what is referred to as the law of love controls you in a way that law as such cannot.
Now one way of missing that always comes up at this point is the oh we should just be lawless then, we can do anything and it's just great. Well not really like Paul says let it never be!
This perfect law of love doesn't destroy the Law, it fulfills it, it establishes it.
So we see a few examples in scripture.
The Law says don't commit murder, but the law of love says this is fulfilled in that anyone who hates is a murderer.
The Law says don't commit adultery, but the law of love says that he who looks upon a woman with lust is an adulterer.
We still use the Law as believers as a guide, still used as a schoolmaster, for it is much more trustworthy than our sinful hearts. But we don't follow it. This is referred to in Lutheran theology as the third use of the law.
We don't not steal because the Law says not to, stealing is not love. But we have that guide so we don't fall off the track thinking oh if I steal but use if for "God's work" it must be okay. No God gave us that guideline to protect us from such thoughts.
You are young but you have likely experienced it when things are right, either in receiving or in giving.
Let's say a child is hurt and crying. Your desire is to comfort him. To help him. You don't have to stop and say, what does the Law say? How shall I pick him up, how long should I hold him, and so on. No, you just respond in love to comfort him.
And when things are operating as they should, this is really how your whole life works. But because our old sinful self still hangs around though, we often fight against doing what we know we should, we often miss the mark. But we grow, and over time, we decrease and Jesus increases.
One of the things that strikes me as so strange is how we are freed from the Law. We are under grace, not law. And then the normal human thing to do is to cry out that we must have a law in order to know what to do. But law does not free us, it does not strengthen us, no rather sin uses it against us. So law does not perfect faith, but faith perfects the law.
If you are having a brain cramp, don't worry it will come.
Marv