Of course God is the one to open eyes and ears, I believe He is the source and initiator of all good toward us, but we also have the opportunity to respond or agree and yield to His good toward us or reject it. I don't believe God is selective in His goodness, He makes the rain shine on the just and the unjust. But who do we thank for that rain. God, the Creator of heaven and earth or an idol (Baal, god of storm, thor god of thunder or Zeus god of lightning or an unknown God).
Paul in Acts 17 proclaimed to them the God that they ignorantly didn't know. And to this, some mocked, some were curious and wanted to know more and a few believed. But each were given an opportunity to respond. Maybe for some it was a seed awaiting future growth, for others it was water for nourishment, for others the soil is hard, as the hearts. But at the end of the day God brings growth. We have the responsibility to continue to trust that He will bring about that growth.
Noted
The word (andros) can be translated as either "man" or "husband", depending on the context. Most translations render it as "man" to emphasize humanity in general.
Some translations (NIV) says "husband's will" which is most likely based on a patriarchal culture, it would of been the husband's prerogative to ensure his line continues. But either way the point is, the new birth is God's divine work, which we receive when we accept/acknowledge Him.
I understand God's revelation as both general and special, general in the sense that God has revealed Himself through his creation, conscience and human experience. He is the source. (Psalm 19:1-4), (Romans 1:19-20) and the testimony in Acts 17 which was a starting point for Paul sharing the truth.
Special revelation is what we know from God's Word, the Person of Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit revealing these deeper truths abouts God's character, nature and His plans of redemption for his creation. He is still the source.
Humanity is accountable to God regardless. He can reveal Himself in unique ways (even in our dreams). God is sovereign in how he desires to do this. But we still have to respond.
Yet in His grace, by intimately knowing Him, we are empowered to live our lives holy for Him, our lives a testimony to His goodness, so others may glimpse His love toward His creation. Which too becomes both a compulsion and a testimony.
God initiates, draws, and compels us to recognize our sinful state and need for His provision, but we must acknowledge and accept that grace.
As Jesus said, No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws them (John 6:44). Ephesians 2:8-9, For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.
Our acknowledgement and acceptance of God's grace are not mere human decisions, but rather responses to God's sovereign work of compelling and drawing us to Himself. But we have to acknowledge we need His provision to remedy our sinful condition. As He impresses on us, we yield. His grace is enough and it's by that grace that we can trust Him and surrender to His love.
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Amen