Kit Sigmon
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I am kind of scared to go to church. I struggle with same-sex attraction and I know that homosexuality is sin. I do not live the lifestyle but I still struggle with lust, which the Bible calls adultery and idolatry. My biggest fear is that the people inside the church will not be very kind to me. I see so many threads of people fighting about homosexuality and most people don't understand the struggles. I know that same-sex attraction is very unnatural and it makes people uncomfortable.
You have many people who are very uncomfortable with homosexuals in the church, but then those of us who want to obey God and be Christians who struggled with the desire see all the fighting and quarreling that the church is having about homosexuality. And some people seem very unmerciful. Yeah, they are your speaking the truth about Sin but they seem very nasty about it. I don't know. It makes me not want to go to church. Not because I am afraid of hearing the truth because I already know the truth and I know what scripture says about it, but because people seem to speak the truth without love.
The question is am I wrong about that?
My question is how would others know, if you ain't in sin but struggle with lusts?
Nobody is required to give the church they attend a list of what sin or sins they
be struggling with.
Even if you request prayer...ask them to pray for you to be a bold godly man.
Say that you have a professor who is very intelligent. He is your instructor and he will be your instructor for the rest of the school year. When you do your school work, you want to know if you are doing it right or if you are getting it wrong. But every time he corrects your mistakes he makes you feel like a complete stupid. You want to know what you're doing wrong but you just hate the way that he is correcting your mistakes.
Will it be better to be homeschooled and teach yourself or to continue to be taught by this guy that makes you feel stupid every time he corrects correct your mistakes, even though you are learning from him?
I would talk to the teacher privately about the way they be addressing me, you don't got to put me down in order to teach or correct me. Show me where I
messed up and then teach me how to do the thing correctly.
That's the way it seems sometimes with Christians. They do speak the truth about Sin but sometimes they just don't seem very loving about it.
I am not going around saying they are all so judgemental. We are all judgemental in many ways. I just sometimes wish that people could be less harsh in their judgments.
I don't know. Maybe I am completely in the wrong. I don't know what advice you can give me to be perfectly honest.
I just don't want to go to church and make people uncomfortable. But I also don't want to go to church and feel condemned.
Will God still accept me if I just stay at home and worship him?
God accepts His Children and He say for us to obey Him, be in regular fellowship, be a good neighbor, share His Word with others, be praying, show mercy, act justly and walk humbly with Him.
Everyone at church have they own sin and or sins they be struggling with...there
no one there who has it all together.
The only perfect, sinless person be Jesus.
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