So basically the people I meet at university are unfortunately all into clubbing. It sounds ridiculous to say that all of them do it, but seriously, ALL of them do.
I am in my second year of uni (19 year old female) and I don't have a lot of friends. As a Christian I try my best to hangout with like-minded individuals - innocent people who don't expose themselves to wild parties and drinking, drugs, smoking, sex, etc. But of course, it is sooo so hard to find good genuine humans on campus. (for the record, I have nothing against people who live a different lifestyle than me, by no means am I judging them).
I have tried a few different churches but to be completely blunt, the people my age are weird there lol. Again, I know it sounds ridiculous to say that everyone there is weird, but I just cannot seem to connect with Christians from church. I am a normal gal, with a sense of humour, I'm into fitness and health, I love God, I am kind and genuine. It just seems that these Christians from church are different from me, they laugh at different things and some are really awkward to the point we cannot keep a conversation going. I have stopped going to church all together now because it just feels hopeless to me. I am sick of lack of connection. I just wanna be myself but I can't seem to be when they are so different from me.
Last year I tried to join the university's Christian club, but again, I could not connect with the people there and I stopped going after 2 months. This year I just decided it wasn't worth trying to attend that club again.
I meet a lot of funny, enjoyable people in class but they are all so into immoral things and activities that we just don't have enough in common to hangout. For example, if I wanted to hangout with them, I would have to drink and party... and I know I shouldn't be doing those things.
What should I do?? I don't want to party as I know it is not wise to do so. But I have such a hard time meeting good people. Like, seriously where do I find them?
I'm scared that I am not going to meet any friends (or potential boyfriend) that God has in His will for me because I am not attending church or putting myself around enough Christian people. HELP! Am I ruining my chances of meeting my future husband if I don't surround myself with Christians?? Or will God provide for me and guide me to these Christian people?! What should I do? Thank you any responses are appreciated.
I am in my second year of uni (19 year old female) and I don't have a lot of friends. As a Christian I try my best to hangout with like-minded individuals - innocent people who don't expose themselves to wild parties and drinking, drugs, smoking, sex, etc. But of course, it is sooo so hard to find good genuine humans on campus. (for the record, I have nothing against people who live a different lifestyle than me, by no means am I judging them).
I have tried a few different churches but to be completely blunt, the people my age are weird there lol. Again, I know it sounds ridiculous to say that everyone there is weird, but I just cannot seem to connect with Christians from church. I am a normal gal, with a sense of humour, I'm into fitness and health, I love God, I am kind and genuine. It just seems that these Christians from church are different from me, they laugh at different things and some are really awkward to the point we cannot keep a conversation going. I have stopped going to church all together now because it just feels hopeless to me. I am sick of lack of connection. I just wanna be myself but I can't seem to be when they are so different from me.
Last year I tried to join the university's Christian club, but again, I could not connect with the people there and I stopped going after 2 months. This year I just decided it wasn't worth trying to attend that club again.
I meet a lot of funny, enjoyable people in class but they are all so into immoral things and activities that we just don't have enough in common to hangout. For example, if I wanted to hangout with them, I would have to drink and party... and I know I shouldn't be doing those things.
What should I do?? I don't want to party as I know it is not wise to do so. But I have such a hard time meeting good people. Like, seriously where do I find them?
I'm scared that I am not going to meet any friends (or potential boyfriend) that God has in His will for me because I am not attending church or putting myself around enough Christian people. HELP! Am I ruining my chances of meeting my future husband if I don't surround myself with Christians?? Or will God provide for me and guide me to these Christian people?! What should I do? Thank you any responses are appreciated.