I want to wait, but I am afraid that if I make the guy wait, would if I am bad in bed? What if there is some other problem? I would feel bad making him wait, marry me, and then the sex is bad.
Here's the thing...you're going to bad your first time. And if you find a guy who is also a virgin, he'll be bad too. That's what practice is for And if he runs off and divorces you because your first time wasn't the most amazing thing ever, then he never loved you in the first place.I want to wait, but I am afraid that if I make the guy wait, would if I am bad in bed? What if there is some other problem? I would feel bad making him wait, marry me, and then the sex is bad.
In what universe it is suddenly okay for men to have sex outside of marriage but all women should be virgins? This bugs me. Not having sex before marriage is something ALL Christians should strive for. You're not making/forcing a guy to wait, and any guy that makes you feel this way is one that needs to go.I want to wait, but I am afraid that if I make the guy wait, would if I am bad in bed? What if there is some other problem? I would feel bad making him wait, marry me, and then the sex is bad.
I want to wait, but I am afraid that if I make the guy wait, would if I am bad in bed? What if there is some other problem? I would feel bad making him wait, marry me, and then the sex is bad.
I want to wait, but I am afraid that if I make the guy wait, would if I am bad in bed? What if there is some other problem? I would feel bad making him wait, marry me, and then the sex is bad.
Agreed. You guys will have alot of time to practice...Here's the thing...you're going to bad your first time. And if you find a guy who is also a virgin, he'll be bad too. That's what practice is for And if he runs off and divorces you because your first time wasn't the most amazing thing ever, then he never loved you in the first place.
These are things couples worry about, but shouldn't. It's not about how good or bad the sex is, but the love that brought you together in the first place. What if a week into marriage there's an accident that renders either of you unable to have sex. Does that mean the marriage is dead? Not at all.
Sex is a fun, pleasurable thing for couples, but if it's the most important thing, then it's valued way too highly lol.
Hey how u doin partnerSex isn't the only thing in marriage you know.
If you two love each other, then there will be no problems.
You will learn of each other, and your preferences over time.
If he leaves you for not bein good at sex, then chances are he wasn't worth your time.
Sorry ur sick..I'm studying too.Hey, I've been horribly sick for the past month, but overall pretty good.
Been studyin n such, you?
Did you say you were premillennial?I want to wait, but I am afraid that if I make the guy wait, would if I am bad in bed? What if there is some other problem? I would feel bad making him wait, marry me, and then the sex is bad.
Sex in marriage is rarely predictable.
Welcome to the world.
You don't need to be concerned about such things. Concern yourself with making sure you only marry someone who is already joyfully sacrificing what he wants for what you want—and who loves you:I want to wait, but I am afraid that if I make the guy wait, would if I am bad in bed? What if there is some other problem? I would feel bad making him wait, marry me, and then the sex is bad.
In line with this thinking, the thought comes to mind about the original poster looking into understanding "The Five Love Languages" (a reference to the concepts presented by Gary Chapman in a book with that name). I haven't read it, but I'm guessing it is appropriate for unmarried folks.What you CAN do now, is to know what YOU like; what works well and what does not work. And when you do get married - teach all of that to him in small steps. Not just the what, where and how, but also the WHY. It may just blow his mind.