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Is Mary a source of Holiness?

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Sure do.

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blind assertion to fit the ideology held.

This has been demonstrated. They say virgin, not ever virgin.

you say you understand it to mean ever virgin.

to fit the Marian dogmas, you have to understand all not to mean all, brother not to mean brother, sister not to mean sister.

And, you have to assume facts not in evidence.

Rather weak assertion.
 
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In what way do you think they were a hair away? you either take Mary for God or you don't... all the show of love and honor is not worship as extreme as it is...
TAKE MARY for GOD???????????? And you don't worship her?? And putting her in God's place is what???

FOR the MILLIONTH time...I do RESPECT Mary for what she did. BUT no way is she to be exalted and adored etc. Do I love her? Probably like I do Abraham, Issac and Jacob..John the Baptist....they were full of grace too according to the Word.
 
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..but then not giving Mary the honor that is rightfully hers is bad news as well.
This is to what I am saying.. How is this bad news as well.. Someone explain this to me please? Take Mary where for God? Take Mary for God? Now someone please explain this for me as well..
 
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yes, comprehended.

SHOULD devotional material contain this though?

those who have no proper devotion to Mary have every reason to fear that they will be damned.


What if my devotional material (not dogma of my church, of course) included statments that all RCC are in danger of being damned? Would that be acceptable to you?!?

Those who understand Christ's stance regarding His beloved Mother, should understand we give her honor as our own Mother because Christ adopted each of us.
Damned? No.
Disrespectful of His love for her might get us in some hot water, but I dont believe damned would be the correct term.

No...thank you. I know all I need to know about Mary. She just simply is not that important. Not to me. She gave birth to Jesus, that's all I need to know. Thank you.

Jesus seems to think she is.
Not in a Divine way of importance, but she is His mother.
He choose her as such.
Must be a favorable love relationship for her ~ that He desires all His creatures to emulate.

I don't understand what's up with the flood of Mary threads in these sections? :doh: :swoon:

As I recall, Jesus said this:
Mat 11:11 Verily I say unto you, Among them that are born of women there hath not risen a greater than John the Baptist: notwithstanding he that is least in the kingdom of heaven is greater than he.

It would seem to me, that no one is greater than John the Baptist... so why is Mary elevated over John the Baptist? & I didn't notice Mary's name is noted as greatest 'female'.:scratch:

I so agree, why are there so many threads disrespectful of Our Mother?
It would seem none is greater, but then again, it is assumed that Mary as His Mother [and only as such because she fully gave over to do the Lord's will] is highly elevated.
Perhaps the already understood relationship of a Loving God and His choosen Mother needs no words.

A whisper away perhaps? So close as to be one of semantics...but then not giving Mary the honor that is rightfully hers is bad news as well. The original question of is she a source of Holiness, she definitely is an example of where I should be with God for sure. "Be it done to me, according to Thy will."

-Peace-

She can only be a source of holiness [small h] if we do as she did, and use her as an example. Is she Holiness? No. ;)
She becomes a source to which we refer to as an example.
I agree.

Hi,

I dropped out of this "slug fest" to determine who's right and who's wrong, so I have to ask if it's okay. How were you sinning against Mary? Because that's a bunch of bunk. No one can sin against a non-diety. And especially in a religious sense. So, can you explain this to me? Because I'm totally confused.:scratch:

Sure we can. When you commit adultery you are sinning against your spouse.
You are hurting them. Thus God made it a sin to do this action.
When we commit murder, we are sinning against the person we killed. We took their life.
Thus God made it a sin to do this.
When we disqualify the importance of the Lord's Mother, we slander her and I would surmise this deeply upsets the Lord.
It doesnt matter if she is not God...she is still His Beloved Mother.
Most ppl who honor and adore their mom, would hate to hear slander and all kinds of barbs against her.
Look at it from Christ's perspective.


Have you noticed that those are the only ones whom we are to Honor? Our parents? They are living and we are to honor them by obeying them.. We are not told to obey Mary..

So, are we supposed to emulate Christ in ALL things?
Isnt He our source to follow?
He honored His Mother...and scriptures tell us He obeyed her.
Not that we are to obey her as He choose to do...but when she seeks for us to find Her Son [her main purpose to humanity] then we should listen to her.
Shouldnt we?

Hi,

I'm not trying to pick a fight, but I have to ask why. It makes sense for Jesus becasue she was His mother. To me, it just seems unecessary and not what I've read in scriptures. I guess as a Protestant though I just "don't get it". I really don't.

Look at this through Christ's eyes.

He knew from the beginning whom His Mother would be.
She was no accident. She was to be His Mother. A most precious and close relationship on earth.
[There are none closer]
This was to be an intimate love between Him and a human who would raise Him up through all His life and even after His adulthood, She stayed near Him.
He made a woman He would honor.
He made a woman He would obey.
He made a humble, loving, charitable, and beloved creature that He IS protective of.

So, those who respect, honor, love, and seek His Mother...find Him.

Where she is...He is there.

She is His creature..... She is His Mother.
 
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Those who understand Christ's stance regarding His beloved Mother, should understand we give her honor as our own Mother because Christ adopted each of us.
Damned? No.
Disrespectful of His love for her might get us in some hot water, but I dont believe damned would be the correct term.



Jesus seems to think she is.
Not in a Divine way of importance, but she is His mother.
He choose her as such.
Must be a favorable love relationship for her ~ that He desires all His creatures to emulate.



I so agree, why are there so many threads disrespectful of Our Mother?
It would seem none is greater, but then again, it is assumed that Mary as His Mother [and only as such because she fully gave over to do the Lord's will] is highly elevated.
Perhaps the already understood relationship of a Loving God and His choosen Mother needs no words.



She can only be a source of holiness [small h] if we do as she did, and use her as an example. Is she Holiness? No. ;)
She becomes a source to which we refer to as an example.
I agree.



Sure we can. When you commit adultery you are sinning against your spouse.
You are hurting them. Thus God made it a sin to do this action.
When we commit murder, we are sinning against the person we killed. We took their life.
Thus God made it a sin to do this.
When we disqualify the importance of the Lord's Mother, we slander her and I would surmise this deeply upsets the Lord.
It doesnt matter if she is not God...she is still His Beloved Mother.
Most ppl who honor and adore their mom, would hate to hear slander and all kinds of barbs against her.
Look at it from Christ's perspective.




So, are we supposed to emulate Christ in ALL things?
Isnt He our source to follow?
He honored His Mother...and scriptures tell us He obeyed her.
Not that we are to obey her as He choose to do...but when she seeks for us to find Her Son [her main purpose to humanity] then we should listen to her.
Shouldnt we?



Look at this through Christ's eyes.

He knew from the beginning whom His Mother would be.
She was no accident. She was to be His Mother. A most precious and close relationship on earth.
[There are none closer]
This was to be an intimate love between Him and a human who would raise Him up through all His life and even after His adulthood, She stayed near Him.
He made a woman He would honor.
He made a woman He would obey.
He made a humble, loving, charitable, and beloved creature that He IS protective of.

So, those who respect, honor, love, and seek His Mother...find Him.

Where she is...He is there.

She is His creature..... She is His Mother.
Mary is not my Mother. :) The one I called Mother is now with Christ.. Jesus does not ask us to honor His mother. Only our own parents.. I cannot find Jesus by honoring Mary. I can find Jesus through His word and honoring His word..We are to Honor the Father..He has not written for us to Honor Mary.. We have communion with Him and the Father through the Holy Spirit.. This is possible only because Jesus death at the Cross.. It is His death we are to Honor and not His birth..:)
 
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Mary is not my Mother. :) The one I called Mother is now with Christ.. Jesus does not ask us to honor His mother. Only our own parents.. I cannot find Jesus by honoring Mary. I can find Jesus through His word and honoring His word..We are to Honor the Father..He has not written for us to Honor Mary.. We have communion with Him and the Father through the Holy Spirit.. This is possible only because Jesus death at the Cross.. It is His death we are to Honor and not His birth..:)

You would agree this your opinion. :)

And if I may place my opinion, can we agree it my perspective?

It is through Christ's death we are all adopted. Correct?

Therefore as Christ our adopted Brother, we have an adopted Mother. His Mother.

Its ok if you do not see the implications of having her friendship. Whereas I see the friendship as valid. I see Christ's adopting us fully to mean we are His, and She is His. And to love her is to please Him.

Jesus rebuked the Pharisees for holding traditions such as washing their hands over the Traditions of God.
Such as honoring their parents.

In fact, that duty is a very profound Law to God. Hence He brought it up vs hand washing.

WWJD?

That is a very simple yet important 'question'....

WE must do as He does. He honored Her, He obeyed Her.... it stands to reason His love for her is very strong.

So which pleases Christ?
Honoring, and loving His Mother?
Or not?

Saying she is not important is hardly something He ever said.
In fact, He esteemed His other creatures to be like Her...

AS God, He obeyed her on earth.

DO you believe He no longer loves, and honors Her in Heaven as His beloved and esteemed Mother above all creatures?

Theirs is a sublime relationship.

Catholics have been taught for 2000 years to honor Her, and to ask for her aid. WE have seen the fruits of doing such. Jesus answers us through Her requests.

He still honors her.

God's love does not cease because we live with Him in Heaven.
 
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TAKE MARY for GOD???????????? And you don't worship her?? And putting her in God's place is what???

FOR the MILLIONTH time...I do RESPECT Mary for what she did. BUT no way is she to be exalted and adored etc. Do I love her? Probably like I do Abraham, Issac and Jacob..John the Baptist....they were full of grace too according to the Word.
You need to go back and re read the exchange.

he said he has seen some ppl worship Mary... I said that I have never seen that, extreme devotion maybe but not worship...

he came back and said "a whisper away perhaps" from worship...

again, I asked how? In what way is someone just a whisper away? You either worship something or someone or you don't.

How can anyone almost worship something? you either worship it or you don't...

I have never personally seen any Catholic worship Mary- I have see extreme devotion to her shown, but never worship... I don't think it's a possibility to almost worship, you either will take her for God or you won't- I have never seen any almost take her for god, never see anyone take her for god, i have never seen anyone worship her as if she was...

That is what I meant.:)
 
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This is to what I am saying.. How is this bad news as well.. Someone explain this to me please? Take Mary where for God? Take Mary for God? Now someone please explain this for me as well..
No one said anyone is to take Mary for God- that is pretty obvious from all the posts made...

Not one single person here said that anyone should take Mary for God.

I have no idea why you all are confused... maybe no one is really reading??

hmmm...

anyway...

What the person who said "it's bad news" not to honer Mary, is probably meaning, is that we all should honer her for her fiat- for saying yes to God's will, which was her role in God's plan t save mankind.

I think we all should honer her for saying yes, don't you agree?

i do think it's bad news if we say, "no, I will not honer her for saying yes to God- she deserves no honor at all..."

Do you want to know why I think it's bad news?

because I'm sure Satan thinks the same thing too- he thinks saying yes to God's plan that saved mankind deserves no honor as well...

and I think it's bad news because the bible said that we all shall call her blessed... that he who is mighty has done great things to her...

so, yes...I do think it;s bad news if one refuses to give her honer when it's due.

Satan does the same...
 
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Mary is not my Mother. :) The one I called Mother is now with Christ.. Jesus does not ask us to honor His mother. Only our own parents.. I cannot find Jesus by honoring Mary. I can find Jesus through His word and honoring His word..We are to Honor the Father..He has not written for us to Honor Mary.. We have communion with Him and the Father through the Holy Spirit.. This is possible only because Jesus death at the Cross.. It is His death we are to Honor and not His birth..:)

two questions for you...

you do not agree that she is to be honored for what she did? saying yes to the incarnation?

and do you not celebrate Christmas?
 
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two questions for you...

you do not agree that she is to be honored for what she did? saying yes to the incarnation?

and do you not celebrate Christmas?
I do not Honor Mary for her obedience. For God honors this. No where in scripture am I asked to honor Mary..I think that she was blessed.. I don't have an adopted mother. For there is no mother in Heaven.. No where is it written that there is.. I have an Abba Father because Of the death of Christ.. It is in the power of the cross that I will stand. There is no trouble that is going to come upon anyone that does not honor Mary.. This is not written in the scriptures.
 
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No, the moderator is merely reminding people to respond with love.
In Christ,
Bridgette

And I admire your gentle spirit.
:hug:

We all (the rest of us here) should shape up a bit lol.
:o

Note to self:

2 Timothy 2:23-25
23 But foolish and unlearned questions avoid, knowing that they do gender strifes. 24 And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient
25 In meekness instructing those that oppose themselves
:thumbsup:

Nice to know you,
sunlover
 
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so do most ppl but IAA said something but must have edited because it isn't there... but she did say that she does not honor the birth of Jesus, just his death... which is why I asked if she celebrated Christmas.

Sometime we type stuff so fast we don't realize what we're saying. I understand if it was edited because it more than likely came out wrong.

Sometimes we swing to the far left of the spectrum in a over reaction...

It's sad but Mary probably isn't unimportant in the minds of many here but many feel they have to go way to the left end in order to make a point, that they feel we overly honer her.

We of course then go way to the right end of the spectrum in order to defend our practises, so we just end up speaking past each other.
 
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I give my children gifts yes. We sing happy birthday to Jesus Yes.. Do we reflect on Mary.. NO.. So I guess we celebrate it differently than some.. We look forward for His second entry into the world..
Oh man... are you afraid you are going to incriminate yourself if you just say yes?

No need to explain to me how you celebrate it..

BTW- does this explanation mean you think we honor Mary on Christmas day and not Jesus?

We don't...

It's all bout the baby in her arms.

But I must ask, at what ever church you atted on Chritamss, do they put on a play with Mary Joepsh and the baby Jesus?
 
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Interesting thread. :) Being Catholic you know basically where I stand. I can understand the Protestant view. Yes, I have seen and know of some who have "worshiped" Mary. I have known some Protestants who have dissed the Mother of God. When I was little, anyone diss my mom, or I theirs, and the battle was on and I mean physical. (I am decidedly better with age, I admit, but still...) Mary is the mother of God. I do not worship Mary. I will not diss her either. I will call her full of grace for she was/is. I will say my Rosary and meditate on Jesus life etc. Those who "worship" will answer to the King of Kings one day and there are those who "diss", disrespect, who will answer also to the King of Kings. I do not intend to answer to my Lord on either point.

God bless us both, Protestant and Catholic!
-Peace-

:amen:
 
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I give my children gifts yes. We sing happy birthday to Jesus Yes.. Do we reflect on Mary.. NO.. So I guess we celebrate it differently than some.. We look forward for His second entry into the world..
but..fer real? You really do not reflect on Mary giving birth?
 
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