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New Convert - Understanding How Little I know

I'm new to Christianity. 21. In coming into new life; God has taught me that the devil plants seeds in areas we're too prideful to admit that we don't know all about.

For me, over the last few months, I've realized that the area my seeds of weeds have been planted is throughout the unmapped self image.

To be friends with the world before God truly turns you into a shell for unhomed spirits.

I've been too prideful to share my full testimony with those around me. It's been putting out my flame. Hence, I wanted to put it here.


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At one time, my life was filled with addictions. From age 5 I was addicted to masturbating, not having God fearing authorities in my life. From age 9 I was addicted to wallowing in self doubt. By the time I hit 14, I'd fallen fully into hibernation, sleeping full summers of my childhood away. Building myself upon things people around me liked, I feared being myself. After graduating high school, I fell into New Age teachings. They give you just enough truth to believe; but not enough to ever help you progress. They flame into your pride, greed.. and shackle you. By having all these addictions by 20.. Marijuana, nicotine, sex... I was never satisfied. I became lazy and lost, stopped going to college.

But then, after realizing I'd been living with an incubus for a year (the hard way), I began to pray without ceasing. I would pour my heart out to Our Father. My grandma passed. While I was mourning, alone in the back of a parking lot.. a woman came to my car to comfort me. God's love poured through her. He didn't stop there, reminding me every day I was loved and there was hope through his son, my savior, Jesus Christ. I realized that all of my friends had bonded with me over unhealthy habits. All those who "loved" me only would look for my scars. Isn't that a weird way to love?

He saved me, so that I could be reborn through him, and (as undeserving as I am) that I would share my testimony and that I'd have a chance at a better life, through the ways of our King of Peace. Now, through learning about Jesus and being eager to sense his presence, I run full speed at my goal of fully welcoming Jesus into my heart, and letting all ways of my old self be put to death.

A Dark World

I've experienced depression and melancholy since I was a teen. It seems to be a part of my personality. What I struggle with the most is not having others like me. I am surrounded by exuberant family and friends. Honestly, they're probably just normal. I wouldn't describe myself as goth or anything particularly aesthetic, but there is a darkness in me that feels comfortable and familiar. I'm not evil, just....Idk. I wish I could glorify God in the shadows. I use to write poetry but have no one to write with anymore. It's hard to explain. I've often thought about giving into my dark world, to investigate it, and trust Christ to be there. I am scared of well, scaring people and need a strong Christian friend who sees the world like me and can keep me on the narrow path.
I've been rejected before for being blackpilled and crazy. I remember one time, I created fan art for Ophelia in my multimedia class in HS and my teachers had a meeting about me--- They thought I was suicidal. It hurts to be rejected like this. Again, I really don't know what I mean. I am an introvert, and my heart beats on my sleeve. I guess I go through a lot exposing myself and then when I am not accepted, it crushes my world.

I'm sorry. Is there anyone else who feels or thinks this way? Do you like art and poetry? Do you want to express yourself and can't?

A church for the 'pure' is heresy, Francis warns Curia

From Pope Francis' end-of-year address:

Pope Francis has warned leaders of the Roman Curia against the “heresy” of becoming a Church that is only for “the pure” and which refuses to translate the Christian message into contemporary language and thinking.

Delivering his annual end-of-year Christmas speech on 22 December, the 86-year-old pontiff said the “form” of Jesus’ message can constantly change even as the “substance” remains the same
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During his speech, Francis emphasised the need for the Church to adopt “kindliness, mercy and forgiveness”, to recognise that the path to holiness is something that comes in “fits and starts”, and to give people second chances.

“A Church that is pure and for the pure is only a return to the heresy of Catharism,” he stressed



I love this man. A church that is for the pure is heresy. Amen. As the Theotokos said: God has scattered the proud in the thoughts of their hearts, brought down the powerful, lifted up the lowly, filled the hungry with good things, and sent the rich away empty. That's the Christmas message the church needs to proclaim and embody.

Please pray for me. I am angry at God for giving me autism.

Please pray for me. I am angry at God for giving me autism.

If I did not have autism my life would be different. I would be employed graduate from College, living on my own, slim, married to a beautiful woman with kids. But no he cursed me.

Instead I am, obese, have never been in a relationship, have Phobias, unemployed and still living at home.

Yes I try to socialize but it always ends in nothing meaning the conversation ends before it begins. I try new things but it's the same outcome again don't socializing. Then I have to hear about every normal person in Church who is blessed while I have none of that.

My biggest fear in life is dying alone.

A list of Trump's Legal Challenges--From Stolen Documents Hidden in Mar a Lago to the Georgia Phone Call

There are so many, of course, but it's kind of good to see a list from time to time to see what's still pending and what's been resolved (the Trump Organization's criminal conviction for 15 years of tax fraud...)

We Tasted All of the Grocery Store Eggnogs to Find the Best

Maybe you enjoy it dairy-free, or maybe you spike it with brandy. Regardless, we've got opinions on the best eggnog money can buy.

Whether you’re for or vehemently against eggnog, a product that easily wins the title of “Most Polarizing Beverage” of the holiday season, there’s no denying that it is — and should be — a personal journey of discovery. To help guide you in that creamy and sweet saga, team Food & Wine tasted as many different cartons as we could find in New York City grocery stores at the start of the holiday season. While this isn't an exhaustive survey of every eggnog on the market nationwide, we tasted nearly 15 different options that came from brands with wide (and local) distribution.

Some were fairly traditional, others flavored, and several fell into the rapidly expanding dairy-free nog category.


Before we dive into our favorites and what we loved about them, let us ask ourselves some fundamental questions: How did eggnog even become a fixture of the holidays? Are there real eggs in it? And, is it even worth drinking it without booze?


What Is Eggnog?​


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idk if this belongs here or what? But i have to be getting this all wrong...

So, Idk where to start this. But I have a confession to make, I dread heaven, the new earth, whatever. Now before you attack me, let me explain.

I love Jesus. I love God. I am not an atheist trying to knock the faith. I have had experiences that I can only attribute to God, so I know hes real. However, I still dread heaven.

Ive been taught by multiple people that all we do in heaven is have one big old sing along around the throne. Bowing down for eternity. And I thought "nah theres no way thats right. That the INFINITE God is making heaven less diverse then present life". So I approached the scriptures, I studied, and studied, I looked at different meanings. And all I see is singing, singing and more singing.

I have no problem bowing down to God, in fact I look forward to it. But like all things, you want to do it only so much at a time. I, thanks to being made in Gods image, love to create. I write music, I like exploring, I like building. And I like seeing my creations being enjoyed, just like God does. Again, we are made in his image, so we have alot of the same characteristics. However, I always hoped to be able to do this on the new earth as well. Go exploring? Write music? Explore different cities that popped up around the earth? But from what I can see...its just singing...? Perpetual worship.

Just executing one command again and again and again!

Why? How is this supposed to excite me? All it does is make life purposeless. Why would I develop skills in this life if im not even going to be able to use them in the next? Whats the point of ANYTHING then?!!

I know this seems blasphemous. It probably is. But Ive kept it inside for way too long and I need to get it off my chest. Its not like God doesnt already know I feel this way...

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Hi, I’m JohnArran. I’ve been married now for over 40 years. I’m retired. My Christian faith can best be described as conservative evangelical. Writers like J I Packer, J R W Scott, M Loyd-Jones and more recently J Piper and D A Carson have shaped my thinking. My greatest trial has been depression which has dogged me most of my adult life. It has taught me to rejoice in the Lord and trust in a way I may not otherwise have done. Before retiring I was a Secondary schoolteacher. The Bible, I believe is the sole authority in faith and practice.

Jury finds Michael Capps, former Kansas legislator, guilty of federal COVID-19 fraud

Michael Capps, a 44-year-old Wichita business owner, was found guilty Wednesday of 12 felony charges for lying on applications for federal COVID-19 relief aid while he was a member of the Kansas House of Representatives.

The jury found Capps defrauded federal and state agencies out of $355,550.

At trial, Capps admitted to including Clendenin’s daughters, ages 10 and 14, as employees in a Paycheck Protection Program application and to “comingling” federal funds with personal, business and charitable funds.

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Capps' previous claim to fame was working to get "In God We Trust" signs in all public buildings and schools in Kansas. Maybe he should have focused on one of those Ten Commandments monuments instead.
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Prayer for the Christmas Holiday

Hi everyone,

We need to pray for the Christmas holiday this year, that all who do not know Christ would have a supernatural encounter with Him, for world peace over the season! The whole world will break out in celebration, it is interesting to look on YouTube, you can search for videos on the Christmas celebrations around the world, truly every nation in the world celebrates this in their own way! Mexico City celebrates Christmas for 4 weeks straight, even Iran, which is 99.5% muslim, celebrates Christmas anyway just because they like it!

Lord God I lift up the Christmas holiday this year to You and I pray for the salvation of all the people and nations of the world this year that do not know You, I pray that all would have a supernatural encounter with You! I pray for peace on earth over the season and also especially for Iran, that You would pay the people of that nation a visit and they would all come to know You and for their deliverance from Islam, I also pray for Your intervention in the current situation with the unrest and for freedom for Iranian women and the people, that the hijab laws would be struck down, and for deliverance from the dictatorship! I claim Iran and it's people for the kingdom of God now in Jesus' name, I pray for conviction on the ayatollah and Mahmood Ahmadinejad and for their salvation and also for their deliverance from Islam!

Report alleges Biden family has 150 Suspicious Activity Reports from Banks

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WASHINGTON—House Committee on Oversight and Reform Ranking Member James Comer (R-Ky.) today wrote the Biden Administration and several banks and financial institutions about Hunter Biden and Biden family and associates’ suspicious foreign business transactions flagged by U.S. banks. According to recent media reports, more than 150 of Hunter Biden and the Biden network’s international business transactions have generated suspicious activity reports by U.S. banks for further review by the Treasury Department to determine if there is illegal activity or a threat to national security. The Treasury Department used to provide these reports to Congress, but the Biden Administration has restricted access to them, raising questions about a possible effort to hide the Biden network’s suspicious business dealings.​
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Puddin Cakes for Christmas

1. Retail Sales Down
2. Inflation at record highs
3. A fortune to fill fuel tanks


I had a Facebook friend tell us he was going to the Dollar Tree for Christmas presents this year. My reply was that I heard that puddin cakes were a $1.25!

3 killed at Kurdish community center in Paris; shooter was known to authorities, had previously attacked a migrant center

3 people killed in central Paris shooting, local mayor says


Speaking to reporters, Alexandra Cordebard, the mayor of the 10th district of Paris where the attack unfolded, said “the shootings took place in the Kurdish community center located on Rue d’Enghien, as well as in a restaurant just in front of the community center and at a hairdresser.”

Quick Prayer- Blizzard Conditions in USA

Hi everyone,

You might want to say a quick prayer for everyone in this country being effected by the blizzard, apparently there are thousands who have lost power meanwhile temperatures have plummeted below 10 degrees, wind chills are way below zero and this situation could be very dangerous, president Biden is urging people to stay off of the roads unless necessary. You probably shouldn't go out in this, frostbite can set in within 30 minutes.

Lord God I lift up this situation with the blizzard conditions in this country to You and I pray for everyone who has lost power, that they would not be harmed by the freezing temperatures and that power would be restored very soon. I also pray for the Christmas holiday in this country that many who do not know You would come to know You as their Lord and Savior over Christmas, I pray that all American people who do not know You would have a supernatural encounter with You!

Praying is now illegal

Sadly, in the UK the police believe that praying silently in your head constitutes a breach to PSPO laws to protest or indicate approval or disapproval.

It's either the biggest mistake West Midlands Police have made in years else a sign of prosecution to come.

The question is whether the Christian community is going to do anything about it? Will you?

The 2 greatest commandments

Matthew 22:36-40

36 “Teacher, which is the most important commandment in the law of Moses?”

37 Jesus replied, “‘You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.’[a] 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 A second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40 The entire law and all the demands of the prophets are based on these two commandments.”

I have been pondering these questions lately, what does it mean to love God? What does it mean to love others "as ourselves", and what does "love thy enemies" really mean?

I could hardly think of "loving myself", in fact, the opposite has been true of me for most of my life, so can a person who does not "love" themselves, truly love others? The mainstream culture would have us believe we can't. We must "love ourselves first", before we can truly love another....

But then I get to thinking about how Jesus loved people while on earth and how he wants us to love others in the same way. Even in loving our enemies, Jesus wants us to behave differently than sinners, even though many people struggle with the concepts found in Luke 6:27-36 there is also the interesting passage in Proverbs 25:21-22 which says:

21 If your enemies are hungry, give them food to eat.
If they are thirsty, give them water to drink.
22 You will heap burning coals of shame on their heads,
and the Lord will reward you.

This should be encouraging, shouldn't it?

Back to my theory: I think we "love" ourselves because we naturally take care of our own needs, and I think we are meant to love other people in the same way. It is not an emotion, it's an action. Jesus didn't just go around loving on everyone, giving them bearhugs - he did better than that - he helped them and he healed them.

So, what is the greatest commandment then?
“‘You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind."

If love is a doing word, perhaps loving God means obeying his will ( check) but isn't it interesting that the way Jesus describes that we have to love God is in a much greater way than we are to love each other? They're "equally important", but God is first, right? Do you think we humans have those commandments in reverse when we look at the reality of our relationship with God?

Please pray

Lord, reveal the work of God the Father to me, my people(Ha-young, Ye-young, Ui-seop, Jung-won, Hye-ok, Yul-bin, Suzy, Eun-tae, In-sook, Im-hak, Tan-ae), and to all who read it and pray, and let us know that the Father is in the Son Jesus and that Jesus is in the Father. The will of the true God, who knows all our needs, transcends our personal will. And that all of us will clearly see the Glory that God the Father gave to the Son because He loved His Son before the foundation of the world. Let Jesus Christ directly reveal the name of God the Father to us and see His glory. I Pray that all our glory be truly dedicated to your Son, Jesus Christ. And that we all shomer mitzvot regarding his commandments(keep his commandments) without failure. May God make possible what is impossible for man.

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The 'coercive bargain' theory of Christianity.

So, this is about what I call 'the coercive bargain' theory of Christianity. I will say from the outset, it's an idea I thoroughly reject. If you are a parent, you do not demand your children's love because you will only do good to them if they comply, and you will torment them unmercifully if they don't. Similarly, if you love God, and your neighbour, you will do good unto them because you love goodness, and need no other justification. If you need some promise of reward to get you to believe and to do good, what is left is a mere transaction. And if you believe the alternative is eternal torment, goodness is reduced to some petty, tawdry insurance policy against that. And it's counter productive. For who would really love a parent who inflicted their power thus?

Virtue, it is said. is it's own reward. Pursue it, then, for it's own sake.

Best wishes, Strivax.

The Adoration of our Lord

Let me preface this with: I am in RCIA new to the Catholic faith but I've been seeking Christ since I vocally declared him as my Lord and Savior for about 4-5 years now.

My first Adoration was a big event where I didn't understand the language I didn't feel much. But I had a new found respect for our Latin American community and how reverant they are.

Second Adoration absolutely tore my heart apart. I was a crying mess, I was shaking and I never wanted the love I felt to end. I was deep in the woods away from civilization chaperoning young teens who hated being there and were very disrespectful.

Third Adoration was a beautiful musical experience, but I felt almost nothing at all. I enjoyed the perfomance and gave praise to God. A good night, but I expected tears or some kind of response to our Lord again, but didn't.

Tonight, was my Fourth Adoration; again this one was within our Latin community and initially I was simply happy to be present before our Lord, but I did not feel anything. I decided in my heart that I don't need to feel anything at all to serve him.

At the end of the Adoration, oh boy, the Priest came up, lit incense and began to pray in Spanish before the Eucharist.

I can't describe the outpouring of love that filled me, it was out of no where, my mind was totally empty, no thoughts, only my eyes fixed on our Lord in the Eucharist.

I don't think I've ever shed so many tears. My poor bible study buddy Sebastian who invited me thought I was in pain or something considering my state.

I wanted to share this, because I am so grateful that we have these Adorations!!!

If you know of one happening near you please GO!

I find myself in the Chapel often, and yes I sometimes have strong reactions there too. But there is something special about the Adoration with members of the church and a Priest there present with you.

US Rep. Ferguson voted in Georgia county where he no longer lives, records show

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Flood Geology

In a recent online debate (here), Inquiring Mind asked me to consider a different view of geology. Perhaps most of those rock layers and fossils down there had been formed in a single global flood in Noah’s day. Really? Do we still need to answer this argument? Flood geology, as this view is often called, was popular in the seventies, but it was so badly defeated, even its followers tend to avoid the debate. Instead, they often identify as advocates of Intelligent Design, avoiding questions of how all those fossils got down there. They know flood geology is impossible to defend against the attack of informed scientists. But that message doesn’t always get down to the troops, who keep on fighting, thinking the war is still going on. Hence, the need remains to address flood geology.

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Where did all those fossils come from? There are trillions of them. Mainstream geologists, of course, recognize that they were produced over a span of hundreds of millions of years as life progressed. But young Earth creationists cannot accept that explanation. It looks too much like evolution. So, they want another explanation. Many settle on flood geology. On the surface it sounds scientific. And it fits neatly with their theology. I understand the attraction. I was once there, devouring the flood geology line. But that was long ago, and my views have changed.

Flood Geology is Born​

In contrast to these modern flood geology advocates, creationists in the 1800’s were often quite open to old Earth views. Fundamentalists like Charles H. Spurgeon, C. I. Schofield and Benjamin Warfield accepted that the fossils we see deep in the earth could have been there for perhaps millions of years. Even William Jennings Bryan, the creationist lawyer in the Scopes Trial, testified at that trial that creation may have lasted millions of years.

These men saw little choice but to accept that the Earth was old. After all, geologists were finding rock layers down there with many strange fossils. British geologists had found two distinct rock layers in Great Britain that each had their own distinctive fossils. They called these the Devonian and Silurian layers. Where the two layers met, the Devonian rocks were always on top. So obviously, the Silurian rocks were laid down first. There must have been a past Silurian period followed by a Devonian period. Later, Adam Sedgwick noticed that rocks to the west were from a distinctly different third layer. He called these rocks the Cambrian layer. Where the Cambrian layer met the Silurian or Devonian layers, the Cambrian rocks always graded below the other layers. So now they knew of three time periods. They would soon learn of another period, the Ordovician. And wherever those layers met, they always followed the same order: Cambrian, Ordovician, Silurian, and Devonian.

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Adam Sedgwick was a creationist, as were many of the other early geologists. They were simply recording what they saw. If God created everything, and we find there were different periods in the past when different creatures were on Earth, then these geologists figured that these creatures must be God’s past work. Perhaps God had simply made different life in different periods and had found the need to wipe out each previous period with a catastrophe.

And so, by the late 1800s, it had become clear that there was a series of distinct long periods of time with distinct life in the past. Geologists put together the beginnings of our familiar Geologic Column based on their observations.

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Many fundamentalists had no problem accepting these long ages. Why fight science? Many found they could put a gap before Genesis 1:2 , which was a convenient place to insert these long ages. Others extended the length of the days in the rest of Genesis 1, so each day was actually millions of years.

But then, when Darwinism became widely known, it became obvious that these rocks were showing a picture of evolution on Earth. Many Christians could not accept this. They not only disputed evolution, but they also looked for ways to dispute the millions of years that life had been on Earth.

One creationist counter argument was popularized by Phillip Gosse in his 1857 book titled Omphalos, which is the Greek word for bellybutton. Gosse argued that Adam, to be truly man, was created with a bellybutton. Thus, Adam had the appearance of age, and of a birth that never took place. Likewise, all the fossils that scientists were finding were explained away as things that had been created that way from the creation of the world. Fossils in the Earth were like Adam’s omphalos. They were always just there.

The argument is silly. Why would God create all these fossils to look like animals that never lived?

There is overwhelming evidence that the earth is old, and overwhelming evidence that those fossils are real.

If we are going to state that God just created it that way, with all that history written in the rocks that never happened, why not just say that God created the world last Thursday, with all your memories implanted in you at creation? A God who could fake an entire history of the earth in rocks could fake an entire history of you in your mind. So, in the end, Omphalos arguments have little more validity than Last Thursday arguments.

There was an alternate view. Seventh Day Adventist, George McCready Price, taught that those fossils are the remains of animals that had been buried in Noah’s flood. But few people took his ideas seriously.

But then, in 1961, a hydraulics engineer, Henry Morris, and a theologian, John Whitcomb, wrote their book, The Genesis Flood. Morris and Whitcomb argued that all those rock layers had been deposited in Noah’s flood, and the flood sorted them out the way they appear down there. Morris promoted his view of geology and the flood and began the creationist organization, the ICR.

Creationists finally had a counter argument that at least looked more substantial than omphalos. Flood geology as a defined discipline was born. Although this hypothetical global flood required some miracles, flood geologists argued that, once things got started, natural laws caused those flood waters to form what we now know as the fossil record. These men called themselves scientific creationists. After all, they used what appeared to be scientific arguments to suggest that the fossil record was created through their model of creation. Yes, Virginia, there is a creation model.

But this was all built on a flimsy basis. The model totally fails to predict the rock layers down there. Clearly those layers came from something other than a global flood. Let’s look at what we see...

Excerpted from Flood Geology and Scientific Creationism at my website (www.mindsetfree.blog)
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Is Apostolic succession biblical?

From what I understand, the Apostles did select a new Apostle to replace Judas, which can be found in Acts 1:21-26 .

In other texts, such as Timothy 1:6 , Timothy 4:14 , and Timothy 5:22 , we see Apostles being reminded to "lay their hands" on elders, to confirm them as Church leaders.

...So in the Bible, we see the replacement of an Apostle, by the laying on of hands, as well as others who were selected for other leadership roles, by the laying on of hands as well.

Senate Passes Omnibus Spending Bill Funding Government Through Most of Next Year with 14 Republicans joining Democrats in passage

But that isn't the best part. The best part is that the Electoral Count Act was reformed in the bill so that a vice-president cannot unilaterally decide an election. I am heartened that 14 Republicans had the integrity to secure our elections and prevent further insurrections (including, to my utter shock, my own state's Senators.) There is also more assistance to Ukraine to stop Russia's imperialistic empire building in its tracks.

Since the House still holds its Democratic majority, it will sail through and be signed by the president, insuring that 2023 won't be marred by House Republicans threatening to shut down the government if draconian cuts aren't made to Social Security, etc.

What a wonderful Christmas present--to see our government working effectively together.


The Senate on Thursday passed a nearly $1.7 trillion "omnibus" spending bill to fund the government through most of next year, with 18 Republican senators joining all Democrats in sending the bill to the House, where it's expected to pass on Friday.

It came amid a showdown among Republicans over the sweeping legislation, which also includes reforms to the Electoral Count Act designed, among other things, to ensure that a vice president cannot unilaterally decide a presidential election. It also contains tens of billions of dollars in new funding for Ukraine.

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