sparklecat
Senior Contributor
Well, I'm joining in a little late... but here are my two cents, for what they're worth.
First off, I'll agree with what the guys here are saying about what it takes to get most women. However, they've also said that's a generalization- which is quite true. Plenty of girls actually are interested in the nice guys... I'm with one such nice guy now, am quite happy, and have broken off contact with guys that thought they could get away with constantly being rude to me in the past. All I'd suggest is patience... you've no guarantee that you eventually will find someone good for you, sure, but then again, you might. Cultivate women as friends, and see what comes of it. If you want to pick girls up for sex once in awhile, go ahead, but don't push relationships unless you think you really do want to be with the person, and that they're interested in you for who you are. I think you know well enough that you'd never be happy in a relationship where you couldn't be yourself and be secure in the girl's love for you.
Oh, and *hugs*
First off, I'll agree with what the guys here are saying about what it takes to get most women. However, they've also said that's a generalization- which is quite true. Plenty of girls actually are interested in the nice guys... I'm with one such nice guy now, am quite happy, and have broken off contact with guys that thought they could get away with constantly being rude to me in the past. All I'd suggest is patience... you've no guarantee that you eventually will find someone good for you, sure, but then again, you might. Cultivate women as friends, and see what comes of it. If you want to pick girls up for sex once in awhile, go ahead, but don't push relationships unless you think you really do want to be with the person, and that they're interested in you for who you are. I think you know well enough that you'd never be happy in a relationship where you couldn't be yourself and be secure in the girl's love for you.
Oh, and *hugs*
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