I think the whole idea of being "meek and mild" has been perverted into a state of emasculation that many Christian men struggle with, including myself. How much, exactly, should we turn the other cheek? And how much, exactly, should we stand up against evil, and for ourselves? There needs to be a balance somewhere. I'm still looking for it.
Or maybe it's just that they're beginning the transition from church talk to really getting to know each other. There's a lot to people that you won't find out in church over coffee and doughnuts, and plenty of that ain't even sinful.
I know, but the graphic....takes someone with real tiger blood to post something like that.lol I beat you to the Charlie Sheen reference though.
I know, but the graphic....takes someone with real tiger blood to post something like that.
I suppose that would be the case if they forgot about Matt. 6:1-4, but what would you say about people who did honestly enjoy their missions trips?Possibly, the thing is that first dates are often about appearences. Thats not to say that people lie but they may be very selective about what they say.
Because for Christians being a virtious person is a premium. So if two Christians are dating they may talk about things that demonstrate their virtues. Why tell a story about you doing your favorite activity (whatever that may be) or hanging out with your friends, when you can throw in that story about feeding starving kids in Africa.
As a result a Christian can successfully accomplish the goal of appearing to be very viritious but also come off as boring. Because they've failed to talk about any time when they where having fun or what they do for fun. Thus they come off as *boring*
Seriously , why is it that most christian men are so boring? Not all ,but most of them are so boring. I want to find a good Christian guy ,but most of them are so boring. They have no style,nerdy, horrible taste in music, and they act so pefect when they know that they are not perfect.
They have no style,nerdy, horrible taste in music, and they act so pefect when they know that they are not perfect.
Most people are boring in general.