Shalom
This post should speak for itself..
But for any of the men and ladies out there (especially those looking for a spouse), I was curious as to what your thoughts would be. Because for anyone involved in things such as "TRUE LOVE WAITS" conferences, though I appreciate them, has anyone ever found it odd that many times the emphasis is placed on those who've never messed up as the ULTIMATE in PURITY? And those with the stories of "Well, we waited till we got married to become intimate.....and it's the Best.." are the ones that get exalted? And yet, for those ladies that've had children born out of wedlock, involved in prostitution/raped, or other things where there was sexual misconduct, the stories of those women ending up in solid marriages and relationships are not as highlighted as much---as if they never get a "And they lived happily ever after..."?
And in all realness, how often have many men said "If I had to choose between a girl who messed up sexually and one who never did, I'd go with the pure one....she's more Holy"?