I know his topic is like 3 months old but I wanted to chime in...
I believe that once one repents it's washed in the blood, BUT in the case of virginity although the person who lost their "purity" has repented the fact remains that there are wages to sin. Having premarital sex no matter how you look at it is a sin. We all sin, but we shouldn't let sin reign in us. So to call losing ones virginity before marriage an accident is quite odd to me, I don't see how willingly having sexual relations with someone an accident. Also may I add that it's natural for a man to want a wife who has remained pure, when they enter into the marriage covenant she has herself to present to him, and he has himself to present to her as a gift.
A woman can only enter into a blood covenant with ONE man. Also sexual relations create soul ties which is a no no outside of a Godly committed marriage.
Again we shouldn't look down upon them, BUT we shouldn't also blame men OR women of they choose to marry virgins only.
It's crazy we call those who value purity judgmental yet isn't it judgemental to judge those who we think are so judgemental? If that makes any sense.
Me and my husband remained pure and I wouldn't have had it any other way. I had tons of suitors after me and once I found out they had sexual relations I pretty much told them it wouldn't work out. I knew what I was looking for - a diamond in the rough.