David Brider
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- Aug 18, 2004
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Everyone isnt always "gay" or attracted to members of the same sex all of their lives - there are tons of instances where it happened later in life as stated by the people themselves and again if you read through the thread someone in my own household did the same. I know you wont agree but I asked them with my own mouth and I have been around many many gay people who i have also discussed it with.
Im willing to bet this known also but wishes to be denied because it flies in the face of the truth. God doesnt make people sin - they do it themselves.
I can only speak for myself, but I spent most of my life assuming that I was heterosexual, and dismissing very infrequent feelings of attraction to other guys as just passing phases. It was only last summer that I finally realised that actually, being attracted to mostly women but also occasionally to men means that basically I'm bisexual.
I've no doubt that I'm not alone in this sort of experience. But I'm not sure that it's attraction itself that changes over time (in fact, I'm pretty sure it's not) - rather, it's our experiences and the labels we're prepared to attach to ourselves that change.
David.
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