I think you may be overthinking things here as I think a lot of Christian movies are meant to both entertain and to draw people closer to God and many of them experiment with differing ways and technology to accomplish it, with mixed results.
In Christian film making: I think it is important to stay as close to the text of God's Word as possible. While God can use these films to draw them to Christ, it is by the Word that they are truly saved. I will take good ole fashioned preaching and the power of God's Spirit over some movie. I think a movie just gets the curious about the things of God to open a Bible, and or to go to church to turn their lives over to Christ. I believe God can even use a prosperity preacher to lead someone to Christ, but obviously the prosperity movement is wrong, though.
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As much as I don't really like the Passion of the Christ and don't recommend it as a movie for seeking Christians for accuracy about Jesus and God I've read reviews about the movie where people were very encouraged about the movie and were brought closer to God and wanted to be a better Christian and I can't discount that even if I don't think the movie is that great God can use it anyway.
I am not God to truly know if such is the case. Did their repentance last? Did they believe the movie is on the same authority as Scripture? Do they idolize the movie? Only God truly knows such things.
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I have gotten rid of Movies like Noah with Russell Crow as I don't believe a serious Christian was involved in the writing of it at all way way too far removed from the truth.
I agree. Gods and Kings Exodus is another one that comes to mind, as well.
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When I was brought up my mother went through a time where instead of explaining God and things that are not good in movies and the media she banned them from us and this didn't have a positive effect or get rid of the negative effect because as kids we were smarter than she gave us credit for.
Yes, it needs to be explained to children why big budget secular fantasy films are bad. Then again, it is ultimately the upbringing in knowing God's Word (the Scriptures) that will make a child one day wise unto salvation in Jesus Christ. After they are born again, the Lord will in time will weed out their love for the things of this world (if they truly love the Lord more than this world). Jesus said we cannot serve two masters.
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Songs that had supposed backwards masking in them we didn't really like much to begin with and even though played backwards it was creepy we didn't go evil bonkers and turn into godless axe murderers because of it all.
When I was a kid (before I was born again): When I learned of such music that had backward messages in them, I strived not to listen to such songs. But nevertheless, I did listen to other songs that were openly sinful and in some cases satanic. It was because I was of the world and in darkness and I did not know of Jesus Christ (who is the light) yet.
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People in society will stumble across ungodly things regardless of how we try to ban them often it is better to confront them and render them harmless to you than run and hide from them.
There is a difference between a believer and an unbeliever. An unbeliever will be attracted to the dark things of this world. Christians can sometimes like the dark entertainment of this world, but I am not convinced they have surrendered their lives to Christ fully if they do like such dark and sinful things. For what fellowship does light have with darkness?
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As I don't have anyone else that watches my movies with me, keeping controversial movies just so I can show people some of the deception going on it a waste of money and space for me for the most part so I tend to get rid of stuff that is just plain bad as in that instead of enjoying it or easily tolerating it, it irritates me to watch it at all making it hard to even finish watching it knowing how it goes and ends.
I think if we lead people to Christ, and we teach them to live for the Lord by following His commands according to His Word, the love that they will have for this world will fade away. But narrow is the way and few be there that find it, though. Most truly just want to love the things of this world in these last days.