Calvinists are stuck with adding an event where God coercively changes the heart of His foreordinated ones to cancel their 'Total Depravity' so that they can respond to the preaching of the Gospel. Given their Total Depravity doctrine that has to be included for anyone to be saved. If you don't like that too bad - as it was all decreed long ago. Christ's Atonement, God's Mercy, and God's Grace are very limited - so don't be offended if you aren't offered any. Your very existence may be due to His desire to receive glory from your destruction (I wish I was making this up).
The good news is that that is not supported from the Bible. Ezekiel talks about getting a new heart and spirit and it comes after repentance.
Ezekiel 18:30 “Therefore I will judge you, O house of Israel, every one according to his ways,” says the Lord God. “Repent, and turn from all your transgressions, so that iniquity will not be your ruin. 31 Cast away from you all the transgressions which you have committed, and get yourselves a new heart and a new spirit. For why should you die, O house of Israel? 32 For I have no pleasure in the death of one who dies,” says the Lord God. “Therefore turn and live!”
The conjunction "and" places "get yourself a new heart and a new spirit" as resulting from "Cast away from you all the transgressions which you have committed". Its the same order in the NT, first repent in response to the Gospel and then get a new heart (also referred to as Spirit).
In Ephesians 1:13, we are sealed with the Holy Spirit after hearing and believing the word of truth. There is no mention of another earlier work of the Holy Spirit where He coercively changes our heart to enable us to believe the word of truth.
Ephesians 1:13 In Him you also trusted, after you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation; in whom also, having believed, you were sealed with the Holy Spirit of promise,
Although Romans 3:11 says that men do not seek God, the Holy Spirit seeks us and draws us (not irresistibly per Acts 7:51). When we respond to the Gospel in repentance, we receive the remission of sins and the gift of the Holy Spirit.
Acts 2:36 “Therefore let all the house of Israel know assuredly that God has made this Jesus, whom you crucified, both Lord and Christ.” 37 Now when they heard this, they were cut to the heart, and said to Peter and the rest of the apostles, “Men and brethren, what shall we do?” 38 Then Peter said to them, “Repent, and let every one of you be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins; and you shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. 39 For the promise is to you and to your children, and to all who are afar off, as many as the Lord our God will call.” 40 And with many other words he testified and exhorted them, saying, “Be saved from this perverse generation.” 41 Then those who gladly received his word were baptized; and that day about three thousand souls were added to them
Acts 17:30 Truly, these times of ignorance God overlooked, but now commands all men everywhere to repent,