Yesterday at 10:25 PM SnuP said this in Post #57
anyways, God's will isn't that only some would be saved. His will is that man would choose salvation, choose Him.
Well SnuP, that's certainly your perrogative to see it that way. I would offer a different position though. We don't choose salvation. We, as saved individuals, choose to be obedient. It seems like you totally disregard the nature of fallen man when discussing the freedom with which he can "choose salvation" or "choose God."
Fallen man does not desire the things of God, nor God Himself. Fallen man does not love God. Fallen man does not seek after God. Fallen man does not posess any shard of righteousness that enables him to choose righteously. It's just not part of his nature after the Fall. So, attributing a person's salvation to them based on a decision they make while fallen is illogical at best. Fallen man's nature must be changed before he will ever seek the Lord. That change is called salvation.
How is it love if there is no choice.
You know, I hear this all the time. I don't understand what you mean. How is what love if there is no choice? And also, who said that redeemed man has no choice to live obediently? On the contrary, redeemed man is freer than unregenerate man. Unregenerate man can
only choose sinfully. Regenerate man can choose both righteously and sinfully, and he makes each decision freely. IOW, the decisions he makes are in accordance with his greatest desire. He is not forced or coerced.
Could I say that I love my wife if I made her choose me. Or even that she would love me.
This age old custom of comparing the motives and responses of created beings, us, to that of the Creator, God, is just plain senseless. You are not God. Your wife, as far as I know, is not depraved and evil, she is not your enemy, you are not hers, neither you nor her are capable of sovereignly making anything come to pass, much less by the power of your will.
SnuP, I truly understand why many people feel the way you do. I would like to continue discussing this with you but, as I said, this will never be a progressive conversation if we continue to put God in the box that we are in. God is not us. We are not God. Comparing us to God, or us to pre-Fall Adam and Eve, or us to angels is simply a incongruous premise to start on and can lead us in many unbiblical directions.
God bless