Today at 11:29 AM JesusServant said this in Post #97
We are not capable of loving anything at all. God gives us that ability regardless of the subject of our love being Him or a flower or our dog. No one is special by loving God, because God gave them that ability to love in the first place. We love God only because He first gave us that ability and no matter how bad things look in the world we know that all things work together for the good of those who love Him. Do I love Him to get good things? I'd be lying if I said no, but not the "good things" as some people see it. I nkow you understand what I mean. God gives everyone the ability to love.
Well, first off, I don't believe God loves everyone, at least not in the biblical sense. Verses like 1 John 4:19 are regularly, IMO, taken out of context to support the idea that God loves everyone. I won't even begin to go into detail about John 3:16. I will just say that I think that most mainstream Christians try to make this mean something that it doesn't because they have a really hard time reconciling their own preconceived notions about the characteristics of God with the idea that God might very well
not love everyone. Anyway, I do not believe that God gives everyone the ability to love. I will say that God's grace does rain, to some extent, on the just and the unjust. About the closest example I could give of an unregenerate person biblically loving someone else is probably a parent's feelings toward their children. I know that this opinion will not be well received but I do not believe unsaved people can truly love, at least not in the biblical sense. The reason for that is that biblical love means doing the best for the recipient of your love with no regard for yourself. Now, I can concede that there are quite a few unsaved people with decent morals. The problem is that they
don't do things with a godly motive. For instance, an unsaved parent might very well spank their child when they are rebellious, which is a biblical way of dealing with rebellion. While it might be the right response, it is not done for a godly reason and is, therefore, sinful. If our motivation is not based on our love for God, which is always the case for the unregenerate, then no matter what we do is sinful. As hard as this might be to grasp it is the biblical truth. If an unsaved person were to save someone's life, while it very well might be appreciated and a nice thing to do, it wasn't motivated by a desire to love another as we love ourself. Therefore, in a biblical sense, it's sinful. I know at this point in reading someone is going to be wracking their brain to come up with examples of people they know that are unsaved that truly do things for selfless reasons. I encourage you to save you breath. It's biblically unfounded and therefore untrue. The Bible clearly says that unregenerate man is unrighteous and so everything they do is unrighteously motivated and therefore sinful, regardless of it's outward appearance. Even actions that outwardly appear godly and holy and reverent but are not motivated by a love for God are spoken of in the Bible as being sinful and of no benefit.
I fall in the "we try to live by His Word" because He saved us category. That's what I can't get through to Chelsi or many other Catholics I've debated this with. It's like your earthly father. You love him and he loves you. You know he won't reject you completely when you make mistakes or bad decisions but at the same time you do NOT want to disappoint him because he loves you and you love him.
I agree completely. It's the new nature of regenerate man/woman. God does not just pay for our sins and then leave us in the same fallen state to "work out our salvation." He gives us a new nature. Granted, He leaves the old nature as part of us and the struggle that results between this old nature and our new nature helps us grow in godliness, but God definitely adds something to our make up. That "something" is a new desire, a new motivation. We are now motivated by Christ's love for us. And God, in His sovereignty, is conforming us to the image of that love.
(paraphrased) no bad fruit can come from a good tree and no good fruit can come from a bad tree (this is a toughy for non-believers).
I'd say this is a toughy for most Christians as well and it raises the question of how exactly people come to the conclusion that an unsaved person (bad tree) can bear the good fruit of repentence and faith unto salvation.
God bless my friend,
Don