I'm currently denomination-less, but I want to share my thoughts on the music at the church I attend as a new Christian who grew up surrounded by it. While I enjoy Christian music and have no issue with its performance, personally, I find it distracting and it negatively impacts my Sunday service. I believe that worship should be a deeply meaningful experience, and for me, the current music setup doesn't align with that.
Our service dedicates a significant portion of time to a musical performance. A one hour service is begun with 30 minutes of music, complete with elaborate visuals and lyrics on a screen. Initially, I thought memorizing the songs could help me connect with worship, but I often find myself just following along without truly engaging spiritually. The lack of explanation on how to worship this way leaves me completely lost, and the frequent introduction of new songs makes it challenging to remember lyrics.
"Please stand up and worship with us." To me, is a call to action, yet I find myself standing for those 30 minutes, gazing at the screen amidst the atmospheric lights, pondering what's actually unfolding. I'm attempting to decipher the unfamiliar song lyrics, all the while questioning how this aligns with worship.
The music presentation feels more like a show to entertain people rather than fostering genuine worship. In my mind, it seems to prioritize being trendy rather than creating a space for a meaningful connection with God. I personally feel more connected during the pastor's sermon when I'm reflecting on the word of God.
For me, the music becomes a distraction from my relationship with God. I would prefer to spend more time on the message and scripture, even if it meant a shorter service. It's disheartening to consider skipping the first half of the service to maintain my focus on God and the pastor's message. I feel like I'm somehow being bad for not wanting to participate in it.
I understand that others may find worship through the music, and I'm genuinely happy for them. However, for me, it's a negative experience that feels more like a tactic to attract attendees rather than a genuine worship opportunity.