grasping the after wind
That's grasping after the wind
- Jan 18, 2010
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Her body belongs to her. By marrying me she has promised to allow me and no one else access to her body. I in turn have made the same promise to her. Neither of us owns the others body just the fidelity of the other to restrict access to only each other and never to any others.If her attire causes other men to ogle her it ought to make both of you uncomfortable. The solution would be to wear different attire but if your wife does not agree to this solution, you have a problem, not a right to force her to do what you want. A married person that is unwilling to change their attire to please their partner is not living up to the promise to love above all others and a married person that wishes to force their partner to accommodate them is also not living up to the promise as both are putting their own desires above those of their partner. Ideally, each would be happy to accommodate the wishes of the other and neither would be inclined to pull rank or use coercion , whether physical, psychological or religiously based to have their own desires fulfilled.
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