There is the coming of Jesus in John 14:2-3 that Jesus promised to come and receive his followers to himself. That is the rapture/resurrection event for them looking for him to be taken to heaven where Jesus has prepared a place for us.
And there is another coming of Jesus commonly called the Second Coming. Which is His coming in Revelation 19 and Zechariah 14.
1. coming for the rapture/resurrection.
2. coming a second time to Jerusalem, i.e. Jesus's return, His Second Coming.
There is one Coming, Parousia visible return of the Lord, where He “comes again” to gather His people together at the resurrection and rapture,and destroy the wicked.
This is the Second Coming of Christ.
Paul refers to this as the Day of the Lord, the Day of Christ.
The Day of the Lord is referred to throughout scripture, and specifically in
1 & 2 Thessalonians where Paul contextually associates the Day of the Lord with the rapture and resurrection of the dead in Christ.
For this we say to you by the word of the Lord,
that we who are alive and remain until the coming of the Lord will by no means precede those who are asleep. For the Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of an archangel, and with the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first.
Then we who are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And thus we shall always be with the Lord. Therefore comfort one another with these words. But concerning the times and the seasons, brethren, you have no need that I should write to you. For you yourselves know perfectly that
the day of the Lord so comes as a thief in the night. For when they say, “Peace and safety!” then sudden destruction comes upon them, as labor pains upon a pregnant woman. And they shall not escape.
1 Thessalonians 4:15-5:3
The coming of the Lord is when the resurrection of the dead in Christ take place, as well as the rapture.
- that we who are alive and remain until the coming of the Lord will by no means precede those who are asleep
The coming of the Lord, is the day of the Lord, in which the wicked will be destroyed and not escape the sudden destruction that will come upon them.
- For you yourselves know perfectly that the day of the Lord so comes as a thief in the night. For when they say, “Peace and safety!” then sudden destruction comes upon them, as labor pains upon a pregnant woman. And they shall not escape.
Again, there is one coming of the Lord, which is also called the day of the Lord.
At His coming the dead in Christ will rise, and those who are alive and remain will be caught up together with Him. He then will destroy the wicked, including the antichrist.
If you want to believe the coming of the Lord, in which He gathers His people at the resurrection and rapture, then destroys the wicked is before the tribulation then that is your choice.
JLB