Sadly you seem to just ignore all the scriptures I gave and try to use another scripture to create a contradiction in your doctrine.
Perfect love cast out the rear of death , the fear of the devil, the fear of man, But not the fear of God
According to the context the fear being spoken of is the fear of God's judgement:
God is love, and the
one abiding in love abides in God, and God abides in him.
17In this, love has been perfected with us, so that we may have confidence in the day of judgment that, just as He is, also are we in this world.
18There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear, because fear has punishment; and the
one fearing has not been perfected in love.
19We love because He first loved us.
Please note also that perfect love is referred to in both verses 17 & 18.
If you are still fearing "hell", you have not been "perfected in love" (1 Jn.4:17-19).
V.19 We love because He first loved us. Not because of a make-believe children's bed time horror fantasy about being tortured in fire for eternity.
Are those who profess Christ merely out of fear, i.e. for "fire insurance", even saved?
Do they serve the Scriptural God Who is love, or a false god of fear? Such as Ra, Allah, & Molech, who are inventions of Satan?
The Biblical kind of fear of God that a Christian should have is not a tormenting, paralyzing, destructive fear, but a reverential awe & respect:
"Definition: (a) fear, terror, alarm, (b) the object or cause of fear, (c) reverence, respect."
https://biblehub.com/greek/5401.htm
2 Corinthians 5 - 9. Wherefore we labour, that, whether present or absent, we may be accepted of him. 10. For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ; that every one may receive the things done in his body, according to that he hath done, whether it be good or bad. 11. Knowing therefore the terror of the Lord, we persuade men; but we are made manifest unto God; and I trust also are made manifest in your consciences.”
That's the poor KJV translation. Better for v.11 is:
2 Cor.5:11 We know what it means to respect the Lord, and we encourage everyone to turn to him. God himself knows what we are like, and I hope you also know what kind of people we are.
Reverence, respect:
"Definition: (a) fear, terror, alarm, (b) the object or cause of fear, (c) reverence, respect."
https://biblehub.com/greek/5401.htm
Philippians 2 - 12. Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling. 13. For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure.”
“Trembling”
Greek-from
5141; a "trembling", i.e. quaking with fear:--+ tremble(-ing).
Happy is the man that feareth alway: (Prov.28:14a)
Happy is the one who is always reverent (Prov.28:14a)
"with fear and trembling] not of tormenting misgiving (cp.
1 John 4:18), but of profound reverence and wakeful conscience. So
1 Corinthians 2:3;
2 Corinthians 7:15;
Ephesians 6:5."
https://biblehub.com/commentaries/philippians/2-12.htm
"Not slavish terror, but wholesome, serious caution. "This fear is self-distrust; it is tenderness of conscience; it is vigilance against temptation; it is the fear which inspiration opposes to high-mindedness in the admonition 'be not highminded but fear.' It is taking heed lest we fall; it is a constant apprehension of the deceitfulness of the heart, and of the insidiousness and power of inward corruption. It is the caution and circumspection which timidly shrinks from whatever would offend and dishonor God and the Savior. And these the child of God will feel and exercise the more he rises above the enfeebling, disheartening, distressing influence of the fear which hath torment. Well might Solomon say of such fear, 'happy is the man that feareth alway'" (Wardlaw "On Proverbs," xxviii., 14)."
https://biblehub.com/commentaries/philippians/2-12.htm
"With fear and trembling; i.e. with a holy care to do all acceptably: he doth by these two words mean not any servile fear and slavish despondency, arising from doubting,
Philippians 4:4, but only a serious, filial fear, implying a deep humility and submissiveness of mind, with a reverential awe of the Divine Majesty, and a solicitude to avoid that evil which is offensive to him and separates from him. We find these words used to the like import,
Psalm 2:11 Daniel 5:19Daniel 6:26 Romans 11:20 with
1 Corinthians 2:3 2 Corinthians 7:5Ephesians 6:5;..."
https://biblehub.com/commentaries/philippians/2-12.htm
"‘Fear and trembling.’ ‘But,’ you may say, ‘perfect love casts out fear.’ So it does. The fear which has torment it casts out. But there is another fear in which there is no torment, brethren; a fear and trembling which is but another shape of confidence and calm hope! Scripture does tell us that the believing man’s salvation is certain. Scripture tells us it is certain since he believes. And your faith can be worth nothing unless it have, bedded deep in it, that trembling distrust of your own power which is the pre-requisite and the companion of all thankful and faithful reception of God’s infinite mercy. Your horizon ought to be full of fear, if your gaze be limited to yourself; but oh! above our earthly horizon with its fogs, God’s infinite blue stretches untroubled by the mist and cloud which are earth-born. I, as working, have need to tremble and to fear, but I, as wrought upon, have a right to confidence and hope, a hope that is full of immortality, and an assurance which is the pledge of its own fulfilment. The worker is nothing, the Worker in him is all."
https://biblehub.com/commentaries/philippians/2-12.htm
"LSJ Gloss:
τρόμος
a trembling, quaking, quivering"
https://studybible.info/strongs/G5156