Well at least now I know why your defending divorce and feminism at least. And no, divorce has a bad impact on society. Over half of all inmates came from broken familys. Your ideals are breeding more crime and dismay into society.
I'm defending peoples' right to do as they will and choose; divorce has had a positive impact on society as well, and not only negative impacts; now women arent afraid to go out into the world and make something of themselves, like having a CAREER.
You're one of the ONLY people in the world that thinks women shouldn't have a career of their own. lol Oh wait, all those religious whackos with bombs on their chests believe what you believe. Isnt it ironic? Dontchya think? =P Your ideals are breeding more crime and dismay in the world bro; its the 20th century; get with the program! Stop living in the dark ages
I feel sorry for people who constantly need to think about themselves 24/7 and their own fullfillments as being truly happy. Again, Jesus says why sell your soul in order to gain the whole world
What, you've never heard of be all that you can be? Do what you want to do? Do and be anything your heart desires? We tell our children these kinds of things a positive reinforcement. Would you be one of those that tells kids "Do what OTHER people want you to do. do what your religion tells you to do. Dont ever make decisions for yourself." Yes, sell your soul for the world; but I don't see it like that. See, the world is ephemeral, and won't be here forever. But I thought our souls lasted forever. It seems like one might wanna hold onto their soul, because the world is getting a lil too overcrowded, polluted and smelly anyway. Nah, I think I'll keep my soul. And I'm sure Jesus would agree nowadays, cuz I don't think Jesus appreciated the fact that there are crazy and idiotic people out there, not to mention nuclear fallout, acid rain, war, etc....
Unless in cases of adultry or physical violence then no, divorce is not permisable(and either way it should be a seperation with a cooling down peroid first), as the Gospel clearly states. I attacked you on your view because its contrary to the Gospel. Yet you profess to be christian. I redened the very sad part of your post however. I just can't believe a professing christian can justify leaving their own wife and kids at the expense of working things out. Im sorry, but thats not the christian thing to do and I feel sorry for any parents who put their children through that because of selfish things like the underlined.
Well, not the whole world fits into your little tiny heart-shaped box of irrationality. lol Oooookay, well, trust me, you don't need to feel sorry for anything. Our family is fine, we turned out great; my mother is a successful judge, and my father is a self-made millionaire. He would not have been able to achieve this had he not lived on the west-coast where his profession is widely needed. She would not have been able to get her foot in the door if she had moved to the west-coast. MY mother also divorced my father because he had an alcohol problem as well. This is a problem only he could have taken care of, and she was fearful his drinking might somehow hurt me and my brother. He's sober now, after twenty-years of never touching a drink, and now, he has moderated his drinking responsibly. you have nothign positive to say tho
No, im not concerned with such worldly things as money. Its something used to help support us, that is all. I'd prefer a decent wife over a million dolloar maker who has no idea how to raise her family and thinks about herself 24/7. Do you ever notice how miserable alot of rich people are?
Many poor people are miserable too. Money has nothing to do with how happy one is. But I find it astonishing that you wouldn't let your wife take the job. lol funny thing is, I bet she would take the job regardless of what you say or forbid! You could probably beat her with the bible until shes black and blue with the lord's wrath, but as soon as you say "No honey, its my job to make more money in the household," she'd say "Too bad, I'm taking this job whether you, god or anyone else forbids it." lol Well, at least thats what a LOGICAL and SANE person would do. You honestly think your wife would pass up the opportunity to secure a healthy and happy future with a well-aying career of her own just because you would protest? Live in the real world buddy. lol you act as if because a woman has a job it DESTROYS her ability to raise and communicate efficiently with their family. You sir, live in a strange and negative world;
Jealous? Why would I be jealous of something like that? Your the one trying to justify a husband running out on his family, not me. Your the one telling me its ok for a wife to do whatever she feels like at the expense of her family. I feel sorry for such people and make an effort that this type of proproganda dosen't enter in other peoples ears.
At the expense? What if it is for the BETTER of the family? You act as if it MUST be the man making the money, and the women take care of the domestic responsibilites. THIS IS SEXIST. Very, very sexist. You act as if there are NO functional divorced families out there. You act as if all divorces lead to broken and impoverish homes; you're wrong. lol you couldnt be more wrong! Just because one has a penis doesn't make them any better than someone without a penis....the bible isnt supposed to be sexist y'know....
Fool myself? Well apparently verses like Mark 10:11-12 fool you obviously. Im not attacking your faith, im bringing up something that you support that is againsts Christs own words. Or are you special and that dosen't apply to you?
Dont act as if you actually know what the Bible says; no one does, and people have been killing and murdering and oppressing millions for eons for what they think the Bible says; you sir, are no different. You don't know what the Bible says, and neither does anyone else. Its ALL up to personal interpretation,
Please, your already in your early twenties and divorced. Your ideals are not working for you as you seem to like to think. Faith has much to do with it because there is a standard of truth one must try to follow and have as their guide. Its the people who profess to be christians and yet make claims that it dosen't apply to them that are the hypocrites. Truth is universal and applys to everyone
I'm not divorced; my parents are. lol You, havn't been paying attention have you? heh Lemmie guess, bc my parent got divorced, I'm suddenly this thing that has ideals that aren't working? You're the one whos admitting being a biggot and sexist; but somehow, life isnt working out for
me? lol ooookay. You're the one who thinks divorce leads to dysfunction; but lemmie tell you what REALLY is dysfunctional; sexism and bigotry. Those are true dysfunctions of a troubled mind.
Id rather be a bigot than devoid of truth. DIvorced familys functional? Are you in that much denial? How can a family be functional when there not even together to see their children anymore barely? Or if their lucky shuffling their children back and forth once or twice a month. you call that functional? And lets not even begin at the damage divorce does to children. But people like you seem to be too selfish to even think about those things because your so concerned with yourself you don't see the amount of damage you do to society.
Ooooh yes! My ways of tolerance anti-bigotry and anti-sexism have SUCH a negative impact on the functional half of society!!!!!!!! ahhhhh! lol not all divorced coupled 'shuffle' their kids; its called driving them, or flying them, to their destination, so they can be with their mother or father. I don't see it as shuffling because I don't have a mind enough to objectify people as a deck of cars passing with the dealer button. If your wife divorced you tomorrow, you wouldn't either.
gimmie a break. The divorce rate is like what 50% now? you HONESTLY think that half of the united states lives in poverish, negative dysfunction? don't knock divorce buddy....it could still happen to you. then you'll just have to adjust.
Dude, you're blind to the obvious and inherant truths observable with just a little bit of open perception a keen eye and a little common sense. You suggest my family is dysfunctional, but my family are all college grads, successful and happy individuals, but yet, we're dysfunctional?
