Trevorocity claimed that no one ever changes their sexual orientation. I think it is ludicrous and unfair to make such sweeping statements, which are clearly going to alienate anyone who actually did change themselves in whatever way. Why does it matter if a few people did? I don't see how it makes a difference to any of the arguments anyway. I doubt psychopaths choose to be psychopaths, but you can still make a good case for them not acting in the ways they feel motivated to act, so the issue of choice clearly has no bearing on the ethics of homosexual activity.
I am quite happy to go along with the statement, "Most people cannot change their sexual orientation," and also with the statement "Most people did not choose their sexual orientation," but I am singularly unwilling to accept a claim from one person with a chip on their shoulder that no one has ever in the entire history of the universe changed their sexual orientation. Ex-gay ministries, by the way, usually aim precisely at cultivating opposite-sex attraction more than they attempt to eliminate same-sex attraction (although they do, of course, encourage people to avoid sexual same-sex relationships).
I am also aware of some queer-by-choice people who are no longer attracted to the opposite sex. Their claims should at least be investigated before such broad generalisations are made.
The ability to change sexual orientation matters for political reasons, as I'm pretty sure you already know. But it shouldn't matter if a statistically insignificant number of people are able to change their orientation, which is a much more realistic position, like you said. There is evidence that all women exhibit bisexual attraction, so it makes sense that you, and other women, could make the switch without much trouble. I'm skeptical that more than a tiny handful of men could do the same, though. Strictly speaking, there must have been a few men that have done it, but I'm not convinced it happens enough to oppose the belief that male sexuality is static, given the political importance of that position.
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