What I don't understand is why some, not all on this forum; cannot take a stance that there are others all along the road of observance - share your view and move on if you disagree. There are AMICABLE ways to talk about what I believe and what You believe, and what s/he believes and they do... without it ever becoming anything other than thinking and working positively with those facts.
Sure the MJAA does xzy, and the UCMJ does abc and BSS in Germany does def and IAMCS does ghi and so and so does zbeh... when it comes to the forum, we COULD discuss that without everyone getting their underoos in a wad. It's where we all as adults have to move past our hurts, our baggage and just decide to either not discuss, or bow out before things get too heated.
I believe at this point it might be beneficial for us to just take any debate off the table and work on fellowship, and then perhaps we can bring it back.
Some of this comes down to personality types, but most of this has to do with the dynamic that has changed with some of our newer posters and older posters. I know it doesn't look like I've been here a long time, but I was here under my old username for quite a while and know most everyone here, even if some do not remember me.
The forum WAS doing much better when I rejoined than I had seen it in a long, long time. However, there's been some fur flying as of late that has seen several valuable posters leave.
I've wondered if perhaps working through some books together that are bible study and/or church and messianic history together might mend some of this brokenness, and also if perhaps some rules in place that help change our paradigm and way of thinking of/about others might assist us all.
But, there is so much "you" and "I" accusatory statements that I wonder if anyone could possibly step outside of their comfort zones and walk a few miles in each others shoes and still come out amicably agreeing to disagree or if it would just make it all worse...