What a twisting of the truth you do weave. The church IS INDIVIDUAL BELIEVERS. And the "Greater gifts" must be understood in the context of the scripture, and not the context of an "ungifted" experience.
The verse you quoted, but never posted, in context;
1CO 12:28 And God has appointed in the church first apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then workers of miracles, then healers, helpers, administrators, speakers in various kinds of tongues. 29 Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Do all work miracles? 30 Do all possess gifts/charisma of healing? Do all speak with tongues? Do all interpret? 31 But earnestly desire the higher gifts/charisma.
The "greater gifts" were the Charisma gifts. The gift of apostles, prophets, teachers are not "charisma" gifts they are "doma" gifts.
EPH 4:8 Wherefore he saith, When he ascended up on high, he led captivity captive, and gave gifts/doma unto men.........11 And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers;
And you can desire to be an apostle, prophet etc. all you want, to no avail. Those are talent gifts one is born with even as Jeremiah was appointed as a prophet in the womb. They come as callings of God and not cryings of the "ungifted".
So it is up to YOU to become a CHARISMA gifted believer, not God. It will take faith and not fear to receive. And it will also take an "earnest desire". Not a "Well if this gift is real, God then I'll accept it." Too many Christians have sought the higher gifts with such a religious platitude of a request. That is why they are "UNGIFTED" still. When scripture says "Do all have charisma gifts", of course scripture knows the answer is NO. Not because of God, but because of false teaching and lack of faith.