- Oct 14, 2013
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I’ve always been the one people came to for advice and counseling, but now I think I need some advice, or maybe someone to just listen and give feedback. I’m 71 years old, my wife will turn 70 in June.
We all know that tomorrow is not guaranteed, not even today. For my age my doctors says I’m in excellent health, however my wife isn’t. She is diabetic and now has heart regurgitation (simple meaning heart valve is not closing). I can deal with the health issues, what I’m having difficulty with is she won’t eat right, exercise, and basically doesn’t follow her primary cares advice. She is supposed to check her blood pressure twice a day, if I don’t do it, it doesn’t get done, same with her blood sugar, and of course she is depressed, she has all the signs of deep depression but insists she isn’t. In simple terms she is suicidal, with her behavior I would say she is 5150.
I have tried every technique, argument, and reasoning, I have suggested counseling, the response I get is that’s what you do, and we all know that don’t work.
Her background is law, worked as assistant DA, focused on sexual assault and domestic violence cases, and of course many others she seemed to get all the above mentioned cases because she took them on as personal, and I always told her that wasn’t good, she needed to let them go, she didn’t.
We all know that tomorrow is not guaranteed, not even today. For my age my doctors says I’m in excellent health, however my wife isn’t. She is diabetic and now has heart regurgitation (simple meaning heart valve is not closing). I can deal with the health issues, what I’m having difficulty with is she won’t eat right, exercise, and basically doesn’t follow her primary cares advice. She is supposed to check her blood pressure twice a day, if I don’t do it, it doesn’t get done, same with her blood sugar, and of course she is depressed, she has all the signs of deep depression but insists she isn’t. In simple terms she is suicidal, with her behavior I would say she is 5150.
I have tried every technique, argument, and reasoning, I have suggested counseling, the response I get is that’s what you do, and we all know that don’t work.
Her background is law, worked as assistant DA, focused on sexual assault and domestic violence cases, and of course many others she seemed to get all the above mentioned cases because she took them on as personal, and I always told her that wasn’t good, she needed to let them go, she didn’t.