aiki
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Hi friends,
What are your thoughts regarding one spouse slow, romantic dancing with someone who is not their spouse?
My first response is to wonder why one would slow dance with anyone who was not one's spouse - especially if that person is just a friend. Not good.
I happened to check into Facebook and found a picture of my husband of 35 years holding a friend up tight & personal to his body, with a comment that "others were stepping in to take my place" with the two of them having silly grins on their faces.
Uh, yeah. WRONG. Your husband has behaved very badly.
I was fine with him fast dancing the night away, but would have reminded him that slow dancing was off limits, but he disregarded my text, stating later that he didn't want to be controlled.
Are you controlling? Is his behaviour some kind of passive-aggressive response to your attempts to control him? There are two sides to every story.
I'm so angry at the two of them and am struggling to forgive them for having bad judgement. Any thoughts of what I can do personally to eliminate the anger I feel towards both of them?
Sometimes anger is appropriate. Betrayal shouldn't be greeted with a smile and a "Oh, that's okay!" response. Your anger, though, shouldn't be used as a manipulative tool, either.
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