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Slow dancing with someone who is not your spouse.

yeshuaslavejeff

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Any thoughts of what I can do personally to eliminate the anger I feel towards both of them?
Do as the Word of the Creator says clearly. Pray constantly.

Seek to "without a word" , always in Christ with pure behavior (and thinking) yourself, to win your husband for the Gospel's Sake. Read Ephesians , et al, as often as possible.
 
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Hi friends,
What are your thoughts regarding one spouse slow, romantic dancing with someone who is not their spouse?



Add into the mix, the spouse was home sick, completely bummed that she(me) could not attend the event that she looks forward to all year. I happened to check into Facebook and found a picture of my husband of 35 years holding a friend up tight & personal to his body, with a comment that "others were stepping in to take my place" with the two of them having silly grins on their faces. I should also point out that I had sent him a text asking if he was planning on dancing, which he never responded to. I was fine with him fast dancing the night away, but would have reminded him that slow dancing was off limits, but he disregarded my text, stating later that he didn't want to be controlled. I'm so angry at the two of them and am struggling to forgive them for having bad judgement. Any thoughts of what I can do personally to eliminate the anger I feel towards both of them?

I hate that.
and think that my wife also knows that
I hate that.

Would she want to see me
doing the wild thing dance with another?
Don't think so.
M-Bob
 
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