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ido

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This is why we see so many "odd" looking couples. How many times have we heard: "What did she see in him?" or "They don't match!"

Well, they found someone that was perfect for them!
They went beyond the physical appearance, beyond the "socially or politically correct couple" and went for what they knew; He/She is perfect for me!!!

And because he/she is perfect for me - They make up for my imperfections! And with him/her and GOD - We will never be without (Psalm 23) - Oh, come on now! I feel a preaching coming on!!!Can I get an AMEN from the CF Congregation??!!!

:amen: Preach it, brother! :preach: LOL
 
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joyouspirit

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Is it me or does every guy in the late 20s/early 30s crowd just want to "hook up"? I seem to either attract younger guys looking for one thing or men old enough to be my father.

Anyone else have this problem??


Yes, but is it a problem?

Not really "hook up" but they do get attracted. And when I say my age, they can't believe it. From male nurses, to co-workers, to co-church members.

The thing is it stops there, and they don't seem to have the guts to pursue, it's either they are married or have a girlfriend or they just want to look.

Edit: Not that I want the married men to pursue me and those that have girlfriends already.
 
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ido

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The problem, as I see it and what prompted this thread, is that I can't seem to meet any men that have anything OTHER than sex on the brain. Trust me, I'm a big fan of the three letter word, but I just want to know that a guy is interested in what is on the inside (intellect / values / spirituality) as much as he's drawn to the package it comes in.

I don't mind the attention at all - I just wish I could find someone that would pay attention to the other stuff, too.
 
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