Peter J Barban
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I don't want too much of your personal information, but you need to consider how you deal with intellectual conflict. Many people make the mistake of thinking, "If everyone were as smart as me, we would all get along".I think I gave the impression of requiring more than I do (regarding intellectualism).
Essentially I'm looking for at least X intelligence, willingness to consider facts, and readiness for deeper conversation. I don't care much about whether she's constantly studying (conscientiousness).
This will sound harsh, but even if I get a really nice girl but she's not able to engage me in those ways, what do I have? A pet. My dog is affectionate, dedicated, and nice. I want to connect in a way that my dog can't.
An intellectual woman will have an independent mind and will often disagree with your facts and thinking. You two may have a lot of conflict despite your most treasured intellectualism. And she will likely be as stubborn as you are.
So, the way you deal with conflict on these forums will likely be a prelude to how you deal with your potential intellectual girlfriend.
Are you ready to rumble!!!
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