NothingIsImpossible
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While some agree. I found you can put tons of time into getting to know someone and eventually when you tell them they dump you. So much wasted time and lots of hurt because your involved to much. Or they dump you because you weren't honest up front and think they can't trust you.I never stretches the truth...its just you don't put everything out there when you just start talking to someone. Like someone I'm talking to for the first time, I'm not gonna tell them I have anxiety off the bat, you know?
Its easier to be upfront about it because better to be hurt right away while not much is invested. Also if you fear telling someone right away about problems, then they aren't worth being with if you think they won't like you because of said issues. Its why when I dated (well mostly online) I told people up front. This way it saved us both time. I knew they weren't very Christian like to judge based on a disability. More so it was listed on my profile.
In the end the only person that responded ended up being my wife. She accepted my stuff from the start on the profile page. And she said she also loved that I put it out there like that and was willing to wait knowing many wouldn't bother with me. She said I was very full of faith, hope and braveness.
BTW not saying you have to be like me of course. Just saying be honest and you will find someone who loves you for who you are.
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To be fair I was just tired of the dating game and didn't have time for games and what not. I wanted someone serious and up front about themselves.
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