Before I was a Christian, I was a severe sex addict. Since I've become a Christian, I've mostly got it under control. I slept with a few girls early on in my Christianity but stopped. My biggest struggle for awhile was masturbation but, with the help of the Holy Spirit, I stopped that too.
Back in January, I got a girlfriend. This is my first Christian relationship. We are not having sex or even living together because we're not married, which I'm fine with.
My job often has me travel. I usually spend two or three nights a week at a hotel. Usually I pass the time reading the Bible or watching a sermon. This week, I'm spending last night and tonight in a hotel. Sometimes I walk in front of the hotel for a few minutes to get some fresh air.
Last night, I was approached by a girl. It wasn't the first time this has happened. I usually talk to them and, when they make their offer of a one-night stand, I make my offer of Jesus.
This time, however, when she made her offer, I started to feel exactly how I used to feel all the time and, instead of fighting it and praying, I gave in.
I felt guilty right away. I've felt guilty all morning at work and I'm right now sitting down during my lunch break contemplating what I should do.
Should I tell my girlfriend? If I do, it'll be over and I've been falling in love with her. I feel like God gave her to me then I go and mess it up by doing something stupid.
What do you guys think? Should I tell her?
Back in January, I got a girlfriend. This is my first Christian relationship. We are not having sex or even living together because we're not married, which I'm fine with.
My job often has me travel. I usually spend two or three nights a week at a hotel. Usually I pass the time reading the Bible or watching a sermon. This week, I'm spending last night and tonight in a hotel. Sometimes I walk in front of the hotel for a few minutes to get some fresh air.
Last night, I was approached by a girl. It wasn't the first time this has happened. I usually talk to them and, when they make their offer of a one-night stand, I make my offer of Jesus.
This time, however, when she made her offer, I started to feel exactly how I used to feel all the time and, instead of fighting it and praying, I gave in.
I felt guilty right away. I've felt guilty all morning at work and I'm right now sitting down during my lunch break contemplating what I should do.
Should I tell my girlfriend? If I do, it'll be over and I've been falling in love with her. I feel like God gave her to me then I go and mess it up by doing something stupid.
What do you guys think? Should I tell her?
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