It sounds like you are trying too hard. If you get turned down more than twice a year, you might not be picky enough in who you would be willing to marry. Personally, I want to know that the person I am hanging out with looks like incredible marriage potential before I consider going in that kind of direction with them. If they don't look ideal, then why would I bother? I don't want a half-hearted marriage. A lot of marriages look like they start well, but how many marriages end gloriously better than they started? It's rather unheard of. Why? Because people choose to settle, and many times that settling just ends up in divorce or bitterness later. That said, imo, it's better to spend time finding out who you are and what you want in life/what God has called you to, and then when you have found yourself, you have a better idea of what is unacceptable for marriage material. It's much better to wait and get hugs and emails from friends than it is to bring children into the world into more pain and suffering. It's like people who eat fast food all the time because they can't wait to get home and cook something healthier. What happens? They get fat or die of a heart attack. Or in the least, they don't have as much energy and spunk as someone who does eat healthy and has the nutrients to be able to do more in life.
And some people won't end up meeting the right person. Why? Because we don't live in a perfect world. Christians get martyr'd every year. People needlessly die from cancers. The devil is still waging war against us, and he still has a pretty good army in the world. We aren't always going to get every blessing God wants to give us, and in fact we live without many of them every day. But we live and walk with God, and work on making the world a better place and on kicking the devil more out of the world. That way the future generation is better off than we were, and eventually we will all be in heavenly bliss. The question is, are we willing to give up our assumption that we need to have a spouse in order for our lives to be awesome? (Though many of us God will still be able to bump us into our spouse if we are walking right with Him because God is divine and able). Do we value ourselves enough to not settle for just anything that looks like it will make us happy? Are we willing to put down our fast food mentalities in order to research a healthy yummy recipe? It takes time to find recipes that are healthy for us and taste good at the same time, but once we've found one, we can have it with us for use over and over, and can bless others with it too. We could settle for a spouse that looks hot and makes us melt but that we know has some drawbacks or that we know we haven't spent enough time researching to see if he/she is good marriage material, or we can wait and do our research, and the "healthy" spouse will be able to continue to be a blessing to ourselves, our children, and others over and over again in the future.
(Notes: I'm too lazy right now to edit this to make it more loving, but I think some of the ideas might be more worthwhile than if I didn't post it, so I'm leaving it up, so please look past my lack of time and energy fault/issue. Also, the fast food reference was not meant to have any underhanded messages attached to it, so don't read into it things that aren't there.)
Ive been through mucho lately and through out my life yes ive had crushes and for some my great luck All have rejected. So I would cling to hope that maybe something could change but that never happens.
thats no surprise soooo. Whose next? 
, But I'm passed my rant now. I'm just taking it one day at a time and you know what....
I'm gonna be soo happy from now on and say....Forget it... I'll just let live and let love smack into me!
