I don’t make the standards of how Christians supposed to treat each other God does. Im not holding a grudge I was just asking a question was she being deceitful with me ?
Yeah that’s is highly likely the reason I don’t know why she couldn’t just say that.
Some people have real issues with confrontation and a fear of hurting other’s feelings.
Well it does not matter in the longrun. It’s done and it’s time to move on. Expectations of Christian women are quite high and many feel entitled for them to act a certain way. Unfortunately, we have the same flaws and foibles of secular women. She just did not feel comfortable and she handled in a way that was not to your liking but we must accept others differences. This why we date to sort it all out. There will always be disappointment in the dating scene.
So should their be any expectations for Christians in relationships ? This is my issue, I don’t expect for any Christian to be perfect but we gotta acknowledge right from wrong. Thats all im saying. If a Christian man has the same flaws and foibles as a secular man he would be called out on it and said that is wrong. Im not asking you to say she’s a bad woman or nothing the story is done. All im saying acknowledge right from wrong.
I’m not saying Christians should act secular and should not hold up certain standards. But in this situation? She really did not do anything wrong. It just did not work out. Were you in a relationship with a commitment to one another? Were you just dating feeling the situation out? Seems you are refusing to let go of this which is not healthy. Everyone has different personalities and different ways of handling things. How you think they should handle things is really of no consequence. I do not know how much clearer I can be. This will be my last post in this thread.
