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Public Apology from Erwin

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Erwin

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Hi

It has come to my attention that some moderators have been particularly heavy-handed in their moderation and acting outside of our moderating guidelines.

For example, some posts or threads have been deleted when they do not break our rules. Deleting of posts and threads are the LAST resort.

We have over 100 staff so you can understand that keeping track is difficult.

Obviously we have fallen short of providing proper training.

For the members who have been affected, accept my direct and personal apology.

We are dealing with staff training at the moment.

Also, I agree that we have TOO MANY forum rules.

As part of the reforms I am proposing we will be consolidating this.

As discussed, the reforms will be introduced ideally by early next month.

Thanks for your patience.
 

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Wow, Erwin, this is a pleasant surprise. I must admit there have been about 4 friends of mine who left because they perceived unfairness in their "warnings"... and I sure hate to see that. I am still hanging in there, and am looking forward to seeing the changes. :thumbsup: If there is anything I can do to help, please let me know. ^_^
 
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CaDan

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/me hunts around for Erwin's rep button.

I don't care if it's the webmaster or the newest newbie--I almost always rep an apology. Apologies are so rare in cyberspace that they have to be rewarded somehow.
 
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CaDan said:
* CaDan hunts around for Erwin's rep button.

I don't care if it's the webmaster or the newest newbie--I almost always rep an apology. Apologies are so rare in cyberspace that they have to be rewarded somehow.

I agree! :holy:
 
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loribee59

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CaDan said:
* CaDan hunts around for Erwin's rep button.

I don't care if it's the webmaster or the newest newbie--I almost always rep an apology. Apologies are so rare in cyberspace that they have to be rewarded somehow.

he does have a rep button...it's right next to his changing hats avatar...;)

Erwin, thank you for apologizing...it helps to know that you have a heart to set things right and it's wonderful to see that.

~loribee59
 
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I've been an administrator at several sites, including my new Christian site, so I definitely know what you're talking about. It's not your fault; some people are just too immature to be moderators. ;)

Johannes
 
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Thanks, Erwin. I knew I liked this place. :)

The too many rules thing... I've only been around for a few months, but I was pretty overwhelmed by all the rules when I first got here. I didn't even read them all - I just assumed I'd be good ;). Anyway, I'm glad to see they will be reconsidered.

Thanks for keeping this a great forum.
 
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Chrysalis Kat

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So looking forward to the changes. Thank you for giving us the first real glimmer of hope.

Edit to add: a number of banned members would like for me to express their gratitude to Erwin but are unable to do so themselves for obvious reasons. So Erwin . . . please know that they are extending an olive branch your way with hopeful hearts.
They say that your attitude shown here is proof that
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Thank you Erwin, for your post and the caring, humble attitude you demonstrate. We sure could do with more of that attitude around here, especially lately. Fantastic that rules are to change...we are losing too many friends: people who form the fabric of this site and make it unmissable.

Thanks darling!!
 
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