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Prove me wrong: modesty/skin exposure

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Those are some very impressive logical contortions you went to.

The reality is that women going topless in front of heterosexual men is a temptation for men and it's therefore sinful. Again, our liberty as Christians ends where other people's foibles and temptations begin.

I accept your snide remark, and take it as a compliment.
 
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You may enjoy this reading, if you have an ILL that can get their hands on it:

Morrison, D., E. & Holden, C., P. (1970). The burning bra: The American breast fetish and women’s liberation. Pennsylvania State University.

Bras are intended to enhance appearance, leading to more desire.

Also, the meaning of "moot" is the opposite of its typical usage: Definition of MOOT

Are you saying that I misused the term moot?
 
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I mostly agree with you, but 1Ti 2 has in mind conduct within the church. The standard seems to be loosened (but probably not eliminated) in other contexts, c.f. Saul's kingly apparel, what the priests wore, or Joseph's coat of many colors.
Those other contexts aren't the contexts that Christians today live in.
 
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I believe that Scripture cannot be used to defend the West's viewpoint that it's sinful for women to be publicly topless.

I want to challenge my viewpoint, and the quality of my arguments.
Prove me wrong, using scripture or rationality that's based on Christian principles in order to do so.

The burden of proof lies with the one asserting a positive, therefore you get to argue first.

In the USA you'd need to argue with the police, not us.

Even the world still thinks topless is a bad idea and they're up for most any sin...that says a lot.
 
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Those other contexts aren't the contexts that Christians today live in.

I don't follow the point you're making. If it's about the dress used, then neither do we currently wear a stola, which is what 1Ti 2 mentions specifically (katastolj).
 
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I didn't understand what you meant there. It appears you are saying the majority supports the viewpoint of what I mentioned, but then you point to a site that says the opposite?

You said: "Even the world still thinks topless is a bad idea"

That's the viewpoint of the vocal crowd (the ones who make the most noise).
That's not the viewpoint of the majority, however.
 
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Thus, appreciating and being aroused by a woman (and her breasts) is to lust, but that has not reached the point of sin.

But why play with fire?
 
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But why play with fire?

Because the effect is the opposite of the assumption: our taboo creates more desire; see the beachgoer study I linked to.

I realize this sounds contrary to the part you quoted; let me know if you need further explanation.
 
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You said: "Even the world still thinks topless is a bad idea"

That's the viewpoint of the vocal crowd (the ones who make the most noise).
That's not the viewpoint of the majority, however.

Got it, and that neither surprises me or nor has an affect om my view. This is almost one of those things that I'd dare claim "because" as a good enough reason, or, "I just know it is". :) That's how sure I am in being against it.

At any rate you have my logic, or part of it anyway. Also,

1 Timothy 2:9 ESV
Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel,
with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire,

After using just a little common sense, I just don't get the idea letting it all hang out is going to be considered respectable apparel.

You'll not find the bible spelling it out perfectly because it's one of those things that are a given.
 
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Got it, and that neither surprises me or nor has an affect om my view. This is almost one of those things that I'd dare claim "because" as a good enough reason, or, "I just know it is". :) That's how sure I am in being against it.

At any rate you have my logic, or part of it anyway. Also,

1 Timothy 2:9 ESV
Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel,
with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire,

After using just a little common sense, I just don't get the idea letting it all hang out is going to be considered respectable apparel.

You'll not find the bible spelling it out perfectly because it's one of those things that are a given.

I'm glad you quoted 1Ti 2. Elsewhere, I dealt with this text; I'll paste that material here:

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A) Self-explanatory
The second half of this verse explains the idea of the first half. That is, “with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;”

It’s not about showing too much skin, it’s about dressing too extravagantly. Note that they’re not removing articles of clothing, they’re adding them.

Another reason to think that this only applies to conduct within the church is that it appears contradictory to 2Sa 1:24.


B) Greek
The words used are: modest (κόσμιος) and apparel (καταστολή).


1. Κόσμιος
Κόσμιος is used only twice in the Bible, once in the next chapter (1Ti 3:2) where it’s translated as “good behavior.”

The Strong (n.d.) dictionary says: “From G2889 (in its primary sense); orderly, that is, decorous: - of good behaviour, modest.”

Quoting Barnes (n.d.):

The word here rendered “modest” ( κόσμιος kosmios), properly relates to ornament, or decoration, and means that which is “well-ordered, decorous, becoming.” It does not, properly, mean modest in the sense of being opposed to that which is immodest, or which tends to excite improper passions and desires, but that which is becoming or appropriate.


2. Καταστολή
Καταστολή occurs only here, and as you can learn from the commentary by Clarke (n.d.) and a work he references by Lens (1785): the καταστολή was a specific article of clothing; it only came down to about the waist.

Thus, these words have almost nothing to do with how much flesh is covered.


C) Attention
Some argue that women are not to draw too much attention to themselves with their clothing. Johnson (n.d.) makes this argument, “but adorn themselves in modest apparel. In simple attire which not [sic] attract attention” (Emphasis in original.)

We could say that we’re drawing too much attention to ourselves if we wear too little. However, on many beaches – it’s precisely the opposite. If you’re not exposing a lot of skin, you’re drawing attention to yourself by wearing too much.
 
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It’s not about showing too much skin, it’s about dressing too extravagantly. Note that they’re not removing articles of clothing, they’re adding them.

Of course it is, it's about modesty overall, and that would include not showing ones boobs to the world. Like I said, just a little common sense. If you can't see it, you don't want to see it.

This is like arguing white is black, and it's time for me to get out now, before I start making fun of what your doing here.
 
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Of course it is, it's about modesty overall, and that would include not showing ones boobs to the world. Like I said, just a little common sense. If you can't see it, you don't want to see it.

This is like arguing white is black, and it's time for me to get out now, before I start making fun of what your doing here.

Let me leave this for you to consider on your way out:

Per Suren (1924, pp. 87-88), as cited in Warren (1932, p. 163):

The Turkish woman veils her face; the Chinese would be ashamed to show her naked foot in public; the Arab has no concern at showing herself naked but covers the back of her head. In Assam the women cover the breast only; among certain tribes of the Philippines only the navel is accounted indecent.​

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Suren, H. (1924). Man and sunlight (Unknown Trans.), Slough: Sollux Pub!. Co.

Warren, H, C. (1932). Social nudism and the body tattoo. Princeton University.
 
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Are you saying that I misused the term moot?

I forgot to reply to this. I can't say with certainty, because it sort of fits your writing either way. But based on what you almost definitely intended, yes.
 
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It was once illegal on the US for men to go topless—remember, the Victorian male bathing suit included a top. After the men returned from fighting in Europe during the First World War—where they had commonly bathed topless—they refused to wear tops. The laws requiring men to wear tops were abolished. I think the last man to be arrested for doing it was in the 1930s in New Jersey.

Contrary to what some have said, there is nothing in Scripture that says that women should not go topless.
 
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It was once illegal on the US for men to go topless—remember, the Victorian male bathing suit included a top. After the men returned from fighting in Europe during the First World War—where they had commonly bathed topless—they refused to wear tops. The laws requiring men to wear tops were abolished. I think the last man to be arrested for doing it was in the 1930s in New Jersey.

Contrary to what some have said, there is nothing in Scripture that says that women should not go topless.

I mentioned part of that, earlier. Also, although women's sex drives are weaker than men's: their drives are not weak. Women are at risk of lusting over shirtless men, yet that's rarely considered to be an issue. And it used to be that for a woman to expose her ankle was scandalous; now, no one cares.
 
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I mentioned part of that, earlier. Also, although women's sex drives are weaker than men's: their drives are not weak. Women are at risk of lusting over shirtless men, yet that's rarely considered to be an issue. And it used to be that for a woman to expose her ankle was scandalous; now, no one cares.
True on all counts.
 
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1) Noted: you're considering how it harms her.

2) I agree in regard to their condition. However, I believe that this is a result of the taboo; in some cultures, it's not an issue. Thus, to perpetuate the taboo is to continue harming her. After all, if breasts are taboo, then cleavage leads to her harm as well (and, to a lesser degree: even clothed breasts). See refs. 1 & 2.

I agree, however, in order to have this taboo eliminated, we have to coordinate this with mass media and the government to "de-sexualize" women in how they are shown in TV, films, etc. Ban pornography, prostitution, etc.

Hard work, but there's already one country in the world who's adopted these measures - Iceland. Ironically, Iceland have also managed to eliminate poverty, maintain very low crime rates, most egalitarian country. The country is in fact, rated as the best place in the world for women to live.

Quite an interesting phenomenon happening in Iceland...It makes you think if poverty, love of money / evil, crime, have a lot to do with how we treat women. Many peaceful indigenous tribes around the world in fact place high respect on their women.
 
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