Well, guys, the answer
could be found in the two harvests. (I could be wrong and am open to insight)
Amo 7:1 This is what the Sovereign Lord showed me: He was preparing swarms of locusts (gog invasion) after the king's share had been harvested (rapture) and just as the second crop was coming up. (millenial crop/144,000 of Israel?)
This current "church age" is one harvest. Christ was the firstfruits grain offering. The Bride is the firstfruits produce offering. (all of this is in Lev 23)
Everyone who is a part of this harvest is included in the first resurrection even though there are obviously more than one actual resurrections in the first resurrection. (Christ, those who rose when Christ rose, the Bride, the two witnesses, and the martyrs of the beast)
The 2nd harvest are those people during the millenium. They live AND die (because death isn't destroyed until the end of the millenium). They will rise at the GWT judgment which is not part of the first resurrection.
I would think, therefore, that those who are part of the first resurrection who rise AFTER the Bride, would be the guests.
I remembered, too, that the ancient Jewish wedding tradition was that the Groom would come and take the Bride away in the middle of the night when the Groom's dad said the wedding chamber/rooms were ready and they would be closed in those rooms for seven days BEFORE the wedding feast when the guests would come. In other words, they are actually married for seven days before the reception takes place. That sort of fits with the "pre-trib" idea in that the Bride is snatched away to be with the Groom in the place prepared for seven years and then a wedding feast takes place with the invited guests who would be those who were faithful and refused the mark.
As far as "onwingsaseagles" questions go...
Jesus said that those who are resurrected are like the angels... To me, this means that we have a heavenly home and a higher purpose along with a glorified body. When the Bible says that we will reign on/over the earth, does it tell us exactly what that means? Does it mean that we will be walking among the mortals on the earth, continuing to live as mortals live? Does it mean that we will have duties similar to what the angels do now? They live in heaven, yet are assigned to help people on earth. I don't think the Bible is entirely clear on that and we shouldn't assume to know but can speculate.
It is clear that the Bride, the New Jerusalem, doesn't come down until after death is destroyed at the end of the millennium.