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Originally posted by Auntie_Belle_Um
Auntie asked:
"What if I get divorced and remarry, will I go to Hell for that?"
Cougan answered:
"This one is a hard one to answer for me because it can become complicated and I have always said that I am glad that I am not in this postion because it would be diffcult to deal with. I want to answer all your questions to the best of my abilty. I want to keep this brief. The answer to your question depends on wheather or not you were scriputually divorced or not. There are only 2 reason for a scriptual divorce that is adultry or death. If you fall into this catagory then you can remarry. If you divorce someone for anyother reason the bible would teach that you can not remarry. If you do you will be committing adultry. Remeber when you repent from something you turn away from it and dont do it anymore. So if you did remarry under the wrong conditions you would be living in an adultress relationship and the only way to truly repent would be to get out of that relationship."
Cougan, the reason it is hard for you to answer this question is because you cannot comprehend the enormous power of the Cross. Jesus did not suffer and die just so I could save myself thru my own self-righteous living. We are to live in righteousness, but God forbid that I should ever claim salvation thru righteous living.
My first marriage lasted for two years, and the divorce did not fit the biblical reasons you have stated. My second marriage is a strong Christian marriage that has lasted for 28 (twenty-eight) years. According to your beliefs, I must abandon my marriage so that I might save myself from Hell. Is this the power of the Cross? That I must tell my husband that I am leaving him, so that I can save my hide from Hell? God forbid.
.....but wait, there is an added demension, a loophole that might allow me to be saved *again*. While in the 9th year of my second marriage, my first husband was murdered. Can I assume that I was saved again when a murderer brutally killed my first husband? Did the unrighteous acts of a murderer bring me back into salvation?
Originally posted by cougan
You claim that I am not being honest of what the COC teaches. I am being completely honest in what it teaches.
Originally posted by Auntie_Belle_Um
The COC also says the same thing about the Methodists, they use the wrong "name":
http://www.gospelpreceptor.com/ColleyG3.htm
"Second, Methodists wear a religious name that cannot be found in the Bible. This contributes to the religious division condemned by the Lord. (John 17:20-21; 1 Cor. 1:10-13). There is no church found in the New Testament under the name "Methodist Church". Had our precious Lord established such a church with all its various doctrines, this would certainly have been revealed on the pages of Holy Writ.
The Lord authorizes only one church (Matt. 16:18; Eph. 1:22-23; 4:4), one way to be saved (Matt. 7:13-14), and one fold into which all must enter to be able to enter heaven at last (John 10:1, 16). Salvation is never promised in the name "Methodist," or any other name than the name of Christ. (Acts 4:12; 1 Pet. 4:16)."
Cougan, the COC condemns ALL CHURCHES, every Catholic faith, every Protestant faith. EVERYONE is going to Hell, except the members of the COC. http://www.gospelpreceptor.com/index.htm
Cougan, I don't mean to put down your faith, I'm sure you are very devoted to it. And I'm sorry if you think I have acused you of anything, that was not my intent.My motivation is that you must understand what the COC teaches, in full. I am grateful to the COC for the wonderful memories I have attending church there with my granny when I was a child. I love the COC people there. What I don't agree with is the teaching that everyone, outside of the COC, is going to Hell.
Originally posted by LouisBooth
"1Samuel 15:22 Samuel said, Hath the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to hearken than the fat of rams.
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Agreed. That doesn't tell us that you can fall away though
Originally posted by Azeotroper
Cougan and Bible is Right,
Would I be correct in stating that the Churches of Christ view all of Christendom (which obviously is a false Christendom to the Churches of Christ), except themselves, as being apostate much like the Mormons viewed all of Christendom up until the time of Joseph Smith? If so, who represented the remnant that Christ always preserves during the time of the early church until Alexander Campbell/Barton Stone finally restored the "true church"?
Originally posted by eldermike
JN 4:19 "Sir," the woman said, "I can see that you are a prophet. 20 Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you Jews claim that the place where we must worship is in Jerusalem."
JN 4:21 Jesus declared, "Believe me, woman, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. 22 You Samaritans worship what you do not know; we worship what we do know, for salvation is from the Jews. 23 Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. 24 God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in spirit and in truth."
Men will tell us that we must go back to the mountain. But God's word says no. God will take care of His Church (Me and You) No man can take His worshipers back up that mountain.
If you look down from your mountain and see His worshipers and call them lost, you worship what you do not know.
Blessings
Originally posted by eldermike
This is something you need to carefully consider. The message that all others are lost is one of fear, confusion and division. Who would bring such a message? God has never confused me, never made me afraid and never put me against my brothers in Christ. Bible, visit some other churches.
Blessings
Originally posted by Azeotroper
Bible is Right,
Thanks for being honest!!!
I knew that the CoC believed I was on the way to Hell since I am not a member of their church, but did not know the CoC believed that ALL who lived between the early church and the 1800's were doomed as well.
I must admit it is funny, though, that different churches of Christ often view each other as being as "wrong" as Lutherans, Baptists, Methodists, etc.
And I do find it interesting that our local Church of Christ does not evangelize any of us heathens who attend other churches. I mean why not evangelize the lost?? I guess we are the swine that they don't want to cast their pearls toward.
Any comment?
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