I actually began to pray very honestly before and after reading The Word OF God, speaking it, and so on. I've come to understand The Word Of God, Jesus Christ Himself, far better after doing that. I didn't even begin doing that until I just rejected the whole denominational thing. I was always taken to Baptist churches by my parents in the past. Now I just, for the lack of a better word, comprehend it better than before. I mean, Jesus wouldn't split The Word Of God into multiple denominations. So, I don't know what each one does. I know different things about different ones, but when it comes to having a Relationship With The Lord Jesus Christ Himself so as to reach The Holy Father God In Heaven, and praying Through The Holy Spirit Within, well, being nondenominational has helped me out far more. Pray for understanding of The Word Of God through The Holy Spirit within you when you read. You just might, as many have, come to understand the true meaning behind so many things which denominational stuff doesn't cover. I'd rather listen to The Holy Spirit than any church of "this" or "that." I still agree with a lot of what Baptists do, not all of it, but a lot. I still have denominational friends. It's just that my reading of it is understanding it Through The Holy Spirit and what He shows me. Often He uses events in my own life, filled with many times where I've come close to dying and so on, to explain things to me. Often He will tell me what to say, and other times I'll be writing something, but haven't prayed (now and then I forget, for I'm not perfect, though it is rare for me to forget to pray first), and He will tell me "erase that and start over, word it in the way I say to." I don't her Him at all times, no, but when I do, I tend to stop what I'm doing and begin writing. That's one good thing about being unable to work, despite wanting to work, since you have so much time to write down or record things in voice recorders. I then assemble these which are on the same subject, and let everyone know. I don't keep it to myself either. I let it be known in public, though I do not force it on anyone. If they dislike Christ, they can scroll away. Yet if I kept it just with my friends, would it reach those who need Him? Or would only those with Him already hear it?
As for hearing The Holy Spirit. Not everyone has conversations with Him, for we all have different Fruits Of The Spirit. However, we all tend to feel Him sometimes. I'll go all day without hearing, then suddenly it happens. It's hard to describe. I don't hear it like I do a person completely, though the words are there, but I also feel words spoken to me, become at peace, my mind stops being so distracted, everything becomes clear, clearer than before my mind was clouded by the doctors (the bad ones that started it, not the good ones trying to help me). I also know it is from Him, not from evil, for when younger, over a decade ago, I became involved in some things that caused me to hear evil spirits. I had witnesses, my entire family, so it wasn't just me. With The Holy Spirit, you never feel afraid, worried, or negative in any manner, unlike when evil speaks to you, where you will feel something negative. So since I have known both, I can easily tell when it's The Holy Spirit. The amount of times I've been told something, then told to open my Bible, only to find exactly what I was just told, is amazing. I also feel when something is bad. I don't just feel quilt, but rather like I have armor on, and a hammer just struck it. I'll feel the hit, but not the pain. So if I feel under attack and continue to go ahead, I begin to feel like I'm being protected only by The Holy Spirit, which is true, and will feel it conformed to my spirit, along with there being a point where it's like someone strong is trying to squeeze my neck in, or my chest in, but can't, though I'll feel pressure. This eliminated my "is it okay to" sort of thing. I still recommend asking since we don't all experience it in the same way, having different Fruits Of The Spirit, but nowadays I know when something I do is not right, or is good. I bind evil immediately when awakening, as well as before sleeping, and have a special prayer for waking and sleeping, as well as for before I do anything with this world at all. This understanding has eliminated old things I was once addicted to. Completely. It has rendered them less than ashes. So now I find much less tempts me, and I can resist all temptations. Of course we all have temptations and we all have certain ones that tempt us more than other temptations do to other people. All of the sexual temptations are gone for me, now. Thank Jesus Christ and The Holy Father God for that. I was not always able to just not care at all about those types of things. Money, becoming rich and wanting stuff and more stuff, that's also gone.