Bumping the thread, this is the most recent that I could find on this topic.
For Christian dating I would suggest
Christian Cafe (high quality Christians but possibly distances) and the new dating app called U
pward. In the UK there is one called S
alt but I can't be part of that since I'm in the states. Christian Cafe I've made many friends in my 30s and most recently two very strong Christians. One flew in to go on some dates with me through the site. So you just never know.
For secular,
Match has a good search option. You pretty much have to pay for that app for any success. My logarithm has changed over the year that Christians pop up in the Discover a lot of the time now. The more you talk to other Christians the more it changes your logarithm. Even if you don't think they're a match and you just want to encourage them. Usually if you wait for a little bit you will get a 50% off offer. It's best to use that for 1 month. Recently I got an offer for $4.99 for one month. I don't think you can find that anywhere. I've been close to two relationships dating through this site within this past year.
Bumble is where the woman makes choices, but I've heard from others that it's supposed to be the hookup app. Strange since it's slogan is to empower women. Since May I have seen an uptick in Christians, but there are a lot of atheists and agnostics there.
Coffee meets bagel, I've made one friend through there that's 28 years old and local. I think it's good for a younger crowd and those starting out dating, it seems safe and friendly but I have had a scammer before.
The League, if your application gets accepted on average they say it takes 2 to 3 months to get in. I was able to get in 3 days, not sure if it was because of my LinkedIn profile. This is supposed to be for an elite crowd and big cities, so limited on distance. So far I have not seen very many Christians but they do have a forum that I think you can be part of for free while you're on the wait list. To become a member it's very pricey. And if you are using the free version and get accepted, you have to stay active within 30 days. Otherwise you will be kicked out and you would have to pay the membership fee to ever get back in. If you need to take a break it cost $0.99 to retain your membership for free.
Plenty of fish, I recently signed up and I was able to find a local date. I haven't seen much quality through there but more local and there has been genuine Christians that have contacted me. As the saying goes you get what you pay for, most are using this for free.
Ok cupid I've made one friend through there that lives a long distance away. We both connected over the biblical principal of abstinence before marriage. He likes this app because of the in-depth questions and says that he doesn't respond to anyone unless he is a 90% match. I like looking at what we disagree on, it usually will tell you the kind of Christian they are. I feel like I've had to swipe through 70 or so profiles to find a Christian on there. I've never done the paid membership, to me it seems pretty pricey for one month.
I've not had good experiences with Zoosk, Hilly, Tinder, Elite Singles (I only signed up for one month but have had free premium since),. and eHarmony. I had one date from eHarmony, and two other connections. I was disappointed with a one-year membership, so expensive and I think there were more results in those first two months. I think there are a lot of profiles that just sit there because anyone that doesn't pay can't see any of the photos. Some people swear by eHarmony because of the quality of matching with personality. I think it's worth a try though.
I just started
Facebook Dating with a separate Facebook account the other week. But only tried it for one day. I got to the point of burnout and have been taking a break for 4 days. Sometimes I have to know when to have a reset time and step back. But then jump back into the ring. I also started an account with
Our time and
Silver singles even though I'm not over 50 yet. The free version I haven't seen much potential. Silver singles you can't see anyone and it's just like elite singles.
Really I think it comes down to what you are looking for. I know Facebook dating and Zoosk are probably the most popular from what I hear. Most like it because you will find someone closer. Other dating sites are for people that are more in major cities or willing to go the distance. Currently I have been balancing 10 to 12 apps. I wouldn't suggest it for everyone, but it is good to diversify because a lot of people stay on only on one site. Just my thoughts and best of luck to those that are giving it a try. It's been a real growing experience this past year and a half .... And as others have said on this forum this is just one tool, there are other ways for meeting others like social clubs, involvement in your church, forums, interest groups, and maybe just getting out and having a nice smile will get some conversation going. I highly recommend having some accountability when you are going through this process, others are going to see things that you can't. And of course pray for you and with you.
Additional note, some of these dating sites have social outings and meetups, many times only 24 hours notice though. Now with covid-19 being less restricted, those have been starting up again. At least I think so, I wasn't on some of them before but that's what I'm seeing now. There's also speed dating options through the League. They have two different nights a week that you have 3 minutes to talk with someone at a set time.
And 2020 has changed quite a few of the dating sites that they offer video chat options. So you don't have to worry about giving your personal information out to see someone by video. And instead of just posting photos quite a few sites now offer video to be posted, so get your best tick tock video ready