Yeah, I got the fakes with broken english a whole lot.
I take it that also applies to single men. If so, God help me. Like really help me.
Fair enough. I would not expect anyone to overlook anything. I will answer for being single for such a long time by admitting I did not take action to get dates or even put high on my priorities. The reason why I ultimately have not taken action or set goals, have a plan, etc is something I’m still trying to figure out.Yes it does. Women aren't blind. If he's a catch they're after a ring. Both sexes want to seal the deal when they find what they're looking for. Whether that's marriage or a long-term relationship. Prolonged singleness has a reason. I'm not including womanizers (or the alternative) in that group.
We discussed it on a different thread. You expressed a willingness to work on yourself to overcome your stumbling blocks. That's the mature approach.
You can't expect people to overlook everything. That's unrealistic. You have to do your part. Putting a religious spin on your circumstances will extend your time alone.
Yours in His Service,
~bella
Yes it does. Women aren't blind. If he's a catch they're after a ring. Both sexes want to seal the deal when they find what they're looking for. Whether that's marriage or a long-term relationship. Prolonged singleness has a reason. I'm not including womanizers (or the alternative) in that group.
We discussed it on a different thread. You expressed a willingness to work on yourself to overcome your stumbling blocks. That's the mature approach.
You can't expect people to overlook everything. That's unrealistic. You have to do your part. Putting a religious spin on your circumstances will extend your time alone.
Yours in His Service,
~bella
Would it be a good idea for me seek out dates at the same time I'm looking inside myself to figure out answers to these questions/issues?That's a good starting point. You're going under the hood. You recognize your desire for companionship and need to understand why you've put it off. Once you have the answer you can tackle the problem.
Desperate is a different animal. That's a person who idealizes relationships and makes it their orbit. Happiness and contentment aren't possible without a partner. They'll do anything to have someone.
You don't know the reason yet. If you're asked you tell the truth. I'm trying to figure it out and make changes where needed. That's what you're doing.
Yours in His Service,
~bella
I am well prepared for all of that given I have used OLD before, just not since about 2013 or 2014. I am simply looking for more ways to get dates and experience gradually as asking in person is not often a choice for me or I find it hard which is not to say I've never done it. I did use Match (paid services) no one responded, did attract a couple of scam artists posing as females. I have also used Christian Mingle (no scams) but just never any mutual interest-they did not respond when I messaged or I did not respond when messaged.both due to lack of interest. I also browsed Fitness singles several years ago but never opted for the paid features so did not really use it except to browse.
