I grew up in a fairly strict Christian family. Around the age of 19, I started to doubt the religion I had been raised in, & now consider myself agnostic.
I understand that "agnostic" means you are not sure if there is God or not. I'll check an Internet source > it seems there are variations of the definition.
I once was told that an agnostic believes there is God but the person is not sure if God is personal with humans.
If you please to consider what is in the Bible, I think I can show that the God of Biblical Christianity is personal with each of His children.
For one example, in our basic calling as Christians, we are directed to obey how our Heavenly Father personally rules us in His own peace >
"And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful." (Colossians 3:15)
This is very personal of God, to personally effect our character with His almighty peace and personally guide us in His own peace which has us functioning in His own all-loving love.
Also, we have Romans 5:5 >
"Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us." (Romans 5:5)
So, God does personally share His own love with us > He does not only talk to us from a distance. But in our
"hearts", God so personally and intimately shares with us; this is so very personal, right in our
"hearts".
So, in case you are an agnostic who knows the Bible, this is what you are not sure about > if there really is our Heavenly Father who is so personal with every one of His children.
Also, Hebrews 12:4-11 guarantees how our Father personally corrects every person who is a child of God.
So . . . have your parents been making an ongoing point of making sure you know about this? > God loves you and so He desires to personally rule you in His own peace; God personally shares His own love in the Holy Spirit with us; and God personally corrects His children > so, as Hebrews 12:4-11 guarantees, we share with God in His own holiness and we enjoy and benefit from having His love's
"peaceable fruit of righteousness" in us?
No human can love you like this, but humans with God can love you by telling you this, about God.
So, it is wise not to put too many emotional eggs into one basket of love with some one or a few humans.
Jesus says, clearly,
"if you love those who love you, what reward have you?" in Matthew 5:46.
And you agree that humans can be very wrong, I think you are saying by not agreeing with your parents. Well, one of the main ways a human can be wrong is to mainly or even only love a certain person who he or she can use for that he or she wants.
There are people who love the ones they use for the pleasure they treasure. Their preference is not really sexual, since sex is an act for reproducing. And their activities are incapable of reproduction, but they provide very intense and nice feeling pleasure. So, their preference is not really for how to reproduce, but how to use another person to get the pleasure they prefer.
And plenty of heterosexuals, I am sure, have been functioning in love which is really for the pleasure they want to feel, not really loving each other in love which has us all-loving the way Jesus wants.
So, I don't know if your parents are genuinely all-loving or not and if they submit to how God personally rules us in His peace, all through each day, and if they have brought you up by being an example of this. And I do not know if they have brought you up with good example of how the Bible commands us to relate in love >
"without complaining and disputing" (in Philippians 2:13-16).
"with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love," (Ephesians 4:2)
"submitting to one another in the fear of God." (Ephesians 5:21)
"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:31-32)
In case you are not sure about this, or you think this is not good enough for you, yes you are capable of fooling your own self and not even knowing it. And you need to forgive anyone who has not been doing what they can to help you know and love this way.
And I myself need plenty of correction about this; so I do not have much time to spend pointing my finger at you. The Bible says that if I am a child of God, I get judged
"first".
I have offered you a few basics about how the Bible says to love, and therefore how God's love in us has us relating in love. God Himself does this in us, all He means by His word.
God bless you