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I'm one of those who tries to avoid confrontations as much as possible, but I usually have no fear in telling people exactly how things are!That is very sadistic. I hope you’re not working under her now.
Your struggle fed something unhealthy within her. But its clear she had no lasting impact. You have a very tranquil spirit.
I'm one of those who tries to avoid confrontations as much as possible, but I usually have no fear in telling people exactly how things are!
I feel like my ex used to do it to me, but I don't know if she really knew it or not
I feel like the Lord was telling me to get out of it plenty of times, but I guess I thought I had something to prove maybe, etc... But, no, definitely wasn't healthy, and I have some "scars" from it for sure, but doing pretty good now actually. I'm happy for the most part, and I'm happy with myself and by myself, which I don't know if I would have been as much had I not went through that...I don’t know what you experienced. But I know that cruelty is never the Lord’s response. Some people have experienced pain to a depth where normal relations are difficult. Discerning the truth takes time.
There are those who seek to harm, punish, or exact vengeance through covert means. Their intentions were never good and were undertaken with our injury in mind. This is not of God and is wholly evil.
I think there are some who does so intentionally and with malice and others whose coping mechanism is ingrained.
Yes. It is a subtle strong arming.
You’ve given me something else to consider as well. God is frequently used as the avenue to gain access to a person’s ear or earn their trust.
I might have still been looking to other people, or a spouse, etc, to meet and fulfill my needs instead of God, along with some "other lessons" as well,
I might have not learned to not let go of or not trust and not allow toxic or destructive people in my life, which might have been to my detriment now, etc...
I used to have this thing with picking people, or I just attracted them IDK, who were toxic and destructive people in my life, mates, friends, etc, and I don't so much now...
Little lonely at times, but it's really not "that bad" and really not that bad at all, really, and I don't know that I would have had that perspective before...?
Exactly what Lucifer did in the Garden of Eden - as well as with Jesus in the desert.
Sometimes you stand against the problem. But there are instances when you must stand against the individual if they’re diabolical or unrepentant.
I believe this person is under a demonic influence, given many strange and unexplainable things that have happened.
Do they know your calling and do you understand the earlier comments about Jezebel?
No, she does not know my calling yet, and I've feared her eventually finding out not only because of the crab spirit, but especially because of the "spirit of sabotage," along with the spirit of jealousy/ envy.
Is this a Jezebel spirit?
mind games come from the devil. don't be around those that play them.Mind games. We’ve heard of them and recognize the damage they cause.
In your opinion, what drives the behavior? And how do you address it as a Christian?
They lie too, and on purpose, if you must listen to them, listen intently and then pose questions that you know will trip them up and expose their lies, then you will know for sure... Then don't go or be around them or associate with them anymore...mind games come from the devil. don't be around those that play them.
excellent point.They lie too, and on purpose, if you must listen to them, listen intently and then pose questions that you know will trip them up and expose their lies, then you will know for sure... Then don't go or be around them or associate with them anymore...
God Bless!
mind games come from the devil. don't be around those that play them.
No, she does not know my calling yet, and I've feared her eventually finding out not only because of the crab spirit, but especially because of the "spirit of sabotage," along with the spirit of jealousy/ envy.
Is this a Jezebel spirit?
(There was one more person unrelated to her, a male, whom strange things have happened around him. But I'm letting it go because I do not see these strange happenings being accompanied by signs of the presence of evil spirits in him).
Mind games. We’ve heard of them and recognize the damage they cause.
In your opinion, what drives the behavior? And how do you address it as a Christian?
I wouldn't think of advising anyone to engage spirits. But I definitely want to encourage you to sever ALL TIES with any and all people in your life who are under the influence of any kind of violent, abusive, or manipulative demon. I believe this is wisdom.
I posed the question to gauge your familiarity and assuage your fears. There is some information on this site that’s helpful. I should have expected this.
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