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"It is not good for man to be alone..."

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What is the evidence for being attacked more in the sleep by living with others? Or being attacked at all? I think that are more beliefs I held in the new age and occult.

It could get worse if you're living with the wrong types of people. You still need to choose carefully who you live with.

You expressed your concerns about living with non-introverts. It's the same and it's going to be better living alone than living with the wrong types of people.
 
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It is even more nightmarish to have someone sleeping in the same bed, that is for an introvert even. They`ll be kicked out
Sharing a bed is hard but if the bed is big enough and they keep to their side and let me have a fan on next to me then I am ok.
 
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The last time I shared a bed was with my cousin about thirty two years ago. We were on an expence paid interstate moving expedition, and there were three guys and two beds in the motel room. These days I would get my own room out of pocket. No offense, bro.
 
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The last time I shared a bed was with my cousin about thirty two years ago. We were on an expence paid interstate moving expedition, and there were three guys and two beds in the motel room. These days I would get my own room out of pocket. No offense, bro.
I was referring to when I was married and sharing with a woman. I have not shared a bed with another guy in forever.
 
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I was referring to when I was married and sharing with a woman. I have not shared a bed with another guy in forever.
Yeah I was just chiming in with an anecdotal story I thought might be considered humorous. Sorry.
 
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I think the hardest part for me now is that I have zero social skills with which to find a wife even if she was a fellow loner and a good match for me. I live in a smallish town and there is not much to do other than hang out at bars. There are some single women around but not a lot. Not being social, I am not going to meet them. I have tried online dating and hate it. I am just living my life, making no effort to meet anyone. Given my lifestyle, it's not likely I will meet anyone. It could happen, but odds are it won't. When I do engage with women, they always think highly of me and say I am good looking, intelligent, super nice, etc, but they never seem to feel a romantic attraction toward me. I am sure I don't give off the right vibe or say or do the right things. Whatever "it" is, I lack it. Other people have no trouble finding dates and partners, although many don't last and are painful. So I am saving myself that. I have now traveled all over alone, although sometimes I meet up with people where I go, but I am not traveling with them. Today is my second-to-last day in Paris before flying home on Thursday. I was in Paris for 4 days, the Czech Republic for 5, and now 2.5 days in Paris. I was with some fellow photographers in the Czech Republic but alone both times in Paris.
 
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